Month: November 2026

Gorski, Don

Don Gorski is a 32-year resident of Darien with wife Kathy and grown children Matthew and Sarah. Having grown up in the Boston area (Lynn) and a graduate of the University of Massachusetts (Amherst) with a Communications/Marketing degree, I had a fledgling early career behind the mike doing play by play radio broadcasts for UMass football and basketball and Boston University hockey when they went to the Frozen Four in 1976. However, an exciting opportunity to join CBS Radio in Boston ensued on the advertising sales and management side of the business which evolved into a 12-year career as General Sales Manager of WCBS Newsradio 88 and VP of Sales at CBS Radio Representatives in New York.

After a management stint at KRLD in Dallas, I returned to New York as the first Director of Sales for ESPN Radio Network where we launched an NBA partnership that still exists today. Several years later I joined Winnercomm Sports – a TV production and advertising sales company where I became EVP of Sales representing ESPN’s television lineup of “niche” sports including the Professional Bowlers Tour, the Triple Crown and Breeders’ Cup of thoroughbred racing, USA Women’s softball, National Finals Rodeo and many others. After a stint as VP of Sports Sales at Westwood One representing the NFL and college basketball’s March Madness, I launched my own sports sales consultancy working with the American Kennel Club’s Media Group and Ann Liguori’s “Talking Golf” show on WFAN-NY.

My wife Kathy had a highly successful 35-year sales career at Johnson & Johnson’s Ethicon and Mentor divisions – now retired and a frequent volunteer at New Covenant House in Stamford. Our children – Matthew and Sarah – each had solid academic and sports accomplishments at Darien High School. Matt captained the hockey team and was an All-State and All-American defenseman on the lacrosse team and played at Ohio State. Sarah captained the girls’ volleyball team and was an All-State selection as a Senior. She was an All-Conference middle hitter at Gettysburg College.

I am a longtime volunteer at St. Thomas More parish. I am an avid golfer, have been a member of the Apawamis Club in Rye, New York for 40+ years, and have served as Men’s Golf Chair and as Vice President on the Board of Governors. I am also on the Board of Directors of the Westchester Seniors Golf Association and currently Vice President and Membership Chairman. We welcome all members of private clubs in Westchester and Fairfield counties aged 55 years and older to join the WSGA!

 

Nov 19, 2026
Current Affairs: The Future, Made in China
2:00 PM Lilian Gade Room

We have a fascinating November Current Affairs discussion for you! Our Distinguished Professor of Absolutely Everything, Mark Nunan, will have a presentation inspired by a recent New Yorker article The Future, Made in China | The New Yorker
 in which veteran china journalist Evan Osnos digs into China’s determined strategy to “compete with the U.S. for tech supremacy”. This is not the China we got used to – content to provide cheap labor to manufacture our stuff while swiping our intellectual property for use by its own consumers. Mark has been digging deep into the subject and will lead off with his perspective. We invite all of you to bring your own and join in! Besides the New Yorker article, a list of selected pre-reads that Mark identified is below. I’ve attached pdf’s of those with paywalls (including the New Yorker article).
Our meeting will be Thursday, November 19 at 2PM in the Lilian Gade Room, upstairs at the DCA. Please arrive a few minutes early, since we try to start exactly on time. There is also a Zoom option. The link info is below after the pre-read list.
We can’t wait to hear your thoughts on the China-US-global economic future!
Best,
Barry Silver

Foley, Bob

Bob Foley is a recently retired C-level real estate investment executive. His interests include his family, golf, college basketball, history, and travel.

Bob retired from TPG (NASDAQ: TPG) in December 2025 as a partner of TPG Real Estate and chief financial officer of TPG RE Finance Trust, Inc, (NYSE: TRTX). Bob now serves as a senior advisor to TPG Real Estate (where he remains a member of its investment committees), as a board member of a public company involved in data centers and powered land, an advisor to several early-stage real estate investment and technology firms, and on the boards of two real estate industry trade associations.

His 45-year career encompassed principal investing in commercial real estate credit and equity in the United States and Europe with TPG, Gramercy Capital Corp, Goldman Sachs & Co., and Bankers Trust Company. He co-founded two private real estate investment firms and engineered their initial public offerings. He began his career with Touche Ross & Co. (now Deloitte LLP) in its San Francisco office.

Bob and his wife, Barbara, are graduates of Stanford University, where Bob earned a B.A. in Economics and Political Science. Bob received an M.B.A. from The Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania and is a certified public accountant (inactive) in California.
Bob and Barbara are 33-year residents of Darien. Their daughter and son were born and raised in Darien, are graduates of the Darien public school system, and after college established careers and lives in New York City. Bob and Barbara are members of Country Club of Darien, parishioners of St. Thomas More Roman Catholic Church, and have a lengthy record of civic involvement in Darien and New York City.

Heckel, Tom

Tom and his wife, Pam, moved to Darien in 1987 before relocating to West Norwalk in 2020. A longtime gardener at Cherry Lawn, Tom maintains his Darien connection through a small portion of his property that extends into town. He is also an avid tennis player.

Tom graduated from Boston College in 1973 with an A.B. degree and earned his MBA from Harvard Business School in 1977. He spent nearly 30 years with IBM in sales and marketing before retiring in 2009. He currently serves on the board of Catholic Charities of Fairfield County and provides pro bono consulting services to Connecticut nonprofits through HBS Community Partners.

Tom and Pam look forward to celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary in 2028. They raised their two children in Darien. Their daughter, Kate, lives in Ridgewood, New Jersey, with her husband and three children. Their son lives in Norwalk, where he owns and operates a dog boarding business.

 

Thacker, George

When George moved to Darien 32 years ago for a new job, his wife was eight months pregnant with a questionable decision. Decades later, Darien has proven to be one of his best decisions ever. He found it a wonderful place to raise three boys, play sports, engage with a faith community, enjoy Long Island Sound, and build lifelong friendships. Growing up as an Air Force brat who attended a handful of schools across California and Washington, George is grateful his sons completed their entire education from one address on Coachlamp Lane.

George’s career began with four years as a U.S. Army officer in Germany to fulfill his Cornell ROTC scholarship. After a marketing stint in Cincinnati, Procter & Gamble sent him back to Germany for another four years to run their European Skin Care business. Moving here to Darien, he led Revlon’s Face & Nail division through the company’s IPO. In 1997, he transitioned from packaged goods to financial services with Citibank, later joining The Hartford as CMO, overseeing the AARP program. He capped his career spending a decade as CMO for Nestlé’s Gerber Life division. He also served several years on the Stratton Mountain Ski Safety Patrol. George continues to serve on the Board FinTech start-up.

In retirement, George stays active biking, golfing, skiing, and sailing. He travels frequently to Europe and bikes often to Pear Tree Point.

 

Abbott, Craig

Craig, his wife Andy, and their two sons, Doug and Mike, arrived in Darien in 1993 after eight years in London.  He began his career in 1972 at Citibank in New York before joining First Chicago Corporation and later held senior leadership roles, including Chief Operating Officer in London for Swiss Bank Corporation’s Investment Banking Group, now UBS; Managing Director of derivatives technology and finance for Lehman Brothers; and Chief Administrative Officer for the North American units of Caisse des Dépôts, now Natixis.

After following a more traditional finance path, Craig founded his own fintech advisory company, assisting technology companies enter and navigate the financial services markets.  He is a charter member of the nonprofit TiE New York, The Indus Entrepreneurs, where he co-chairs the mentoring and education program for early stage startups.

Craig earned a degree in economics from the University of New Hampshire. He has remained active in the UNH community through service on various university committees and as a past director on its Alumni Board.

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