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Book Club: River of the Gods by Candice Millard, Nov 9, 2022

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The harrowing story of one of the great feats of exploration of all time and its complicated legacy—from the New York Times bestselling author of The River of Doubt and Destiny of the Republic

For millennia the location of the Nile River’s headwaters was shrouded in mystery. In the 19th century, there was  a frenzy of interest in ancient Egypt. At the same time, European powers sent off waves of explorations intended to map the unknown corners of the globe – and extend their colonial empires.

Richard Burton and John Hanning Speke were sent by the Royal Geographical Society to claim the prize for England. Burton spoke twenty-nine languages, and was a decorated soldier. He was also mercurial, subtle, and an iconoclastic atheist. Speke was a young aristocrat and Army officer determined to make his mark, passionate about hunting, Burton’s opposite in temperament and beliefs.

From the start the two men clashed. They would endure tremendous hardships, illness, and constant setbacks. Two years in, deep in the African interior, Burton became too sick to press on, but Speke did, and claimed he found the source in a great lake that he christened Lake Victoria. When they returned to England, Speke rushed to take credit, disparaging Burton. Burton disputed his claim, and Speke launched another expedition to Africa to prove it. The two became venomous enemies, with the public siding with the more charismatic Burton, to Speke’s great envy. The day before they were to publicly debate,Speke shot himself.

Yet there was a third man on both expeditions, his name obscured by imperial annals, whose exploits were even more extraordinary. This was Sidi Mubarak Bombay, who was enslaved and shipped from his home village in East Africa to India. When the man who purchased him died, he made his way into the local Sultan’s army, and eventually traveled back to Africa, where he used his resourcefulness, linguistic prowess and raw courage to forge a living as a guide. Without Bombay and men like him, who led, carried, and protected the expedition, neither Englishman would have come close to the headwaters of the Nile, or perhaps even survived.

In River of the Gods Candice Millard has written another peerless story of courage and adventure, set against the backdrop of the race to exploit Africa by the colonial powers.

Kadish, Mike

Mike Kadish was born in 1954 in Northern New Jersey.  He got his B.S. in Economics from U. Penn’s Wharton Business School and his J.D. from Georgetown University Law Center.  Mike started his career in the Legal Division of the Federal Reserve Board in Washington, then practiced law with various law firms in California, moved to Darien in 1989, returned to practice law with some friends in California in 1996, then came back to Darien where he has remained since 2002.  After returning to Connecticut, he served as in-house bank regulatory counsel for Citibank, Deutsche Bank, and Royal Bank of Scotland/Citizens Bank, then joined a fintech firm, Total Bank Solutions, in 2017, where he was general counsel until TBS was acquired in 2022.  He was of counsel to the law firm of Joseph Cohen & Del Vecchio but became self-employed January 1, 2026, working on banking law matters from the comfort of his home office.

Mike’s maternal grandfather was a sportswriter in NJ, and imbued Mike with a love for baseball that still endures six decades later, although he annoyed his family by becoming a Yankee fan.  He has three adult children, all of whom attended school in Darien for some part of their education, but are now scattered across the country, and two young grandsons.  Mike’s wife, Sadae, grew up in Taipei and Tokyo, and they enjoy occasional trips to those cities to visit her family.

Xu, David

David Xu was born 1962 in Wuhu, China.  I graduated from High School when I was 17. Then I went to Fudan University in Shanghai in 1979.  I start worked in Wuhan University in 1983 and met my wife and have first son Charles in 1988.  I also got Master degree in economics in Wuhan University. I came to Brandeis University as visiting scholar in January 1989, I studied and worked 31 years in Boston area, I got MS in Computer Science from UMASS at Lowell.  I started as Senior System Analyst in the Boston Company in 1993, I joined Fidelity Investments in 1997 and worked there for 24 years.  Fidelity relocated me from east coast to Salt Lake City in UT 2020,  I stayed 18 months until I retired from there June 2021.     

My wife and I moved to Darien to live with my elder son,  daughter-in-law to welcome our  first grandson Ethan last summer.

   My young son just graduated from UMASS/Amherst this Spring. he works for Meta in California currently.

 

I am just learning to play Pickleball and enjoy playing. I also play some poker games with my Chinese friends almost every weekend.

Dempsey, Tom

Tom Dempsey was born in East Orange, New Jersey, in 1956.  He grew up in Stratford, CT., and graduated in 1975, from St. Joseph’s High School in Trumbull, CT. He was the captain of the swimming and football teams.  Tom received a B.S. degree in Computer Science and a Masters degree in Education at Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, CT.

Upon completing his Computer Science degree, he worked in Telecommunications for General Electric Capital in Stamford, CT.  While working for GE, he met his lovely wife, Marie.

After a career change, Tom worked as an educator for the New Canaan Public Schools for 27 years, teaching first grade, third grade and fourth grade.  He has recently retired, but looks forward to going back to substitute when help is needed.

Tom and his wife Marie, reside in Darien where they have lived for the past 40 years. They have two adult children (a son and daughter).

He is a member of the Mather’s Center in Darien.  Tom enjoys playing the piano, guitar, Mah Jongg, and Cribbage. He also enjoys woodworking, whittling, stained glass making, hiking, bowling, baseball and football.

Book Club: Freezing Order by Bill Browder, October 12, 2022

“Following his explosive New York Times bestseller Red Notice, Bill Browder returns with another gripping thriller chronicling how he became Vladimir Putin’s number one enemy by exposing Putin’s campaign to steal and launder hundreds of billions of dollars and kill anyone who stands in his way. When Bill Browder’s young Russian lawyer, Sergei Magnitsky, was beaten to death in a Moscow jail, Browder made it his life’s mission to go after his killers and make sure they faced justice. The first step of that mission was to uncover who was behind the $230 million tax refund scheme that Magnitsky was killed over. As Browder and his team tracked the money as it flowed out of Russia through the Baltics and Cyprus and on to Western Europe and the Americas, they were shocked to discover that Vladimir Putin himself was a beneficiary of the crime. As law enforcement agencies began freezing the money, Putin retaliated. He and his cronies set up honey traps, hired process servers to chase Browder through cities, murdered more of his Russian allies, and enlisted some of the top lawyers and politicians in America to bring him down. Putin will stop at nothing to protect his money. As Freezing Order reveals, it was Browder’s campaign to expose Putin’s corruption that prompted Russia’s intervention in the 2016 US presidential election. At once a financial caper, an international adventure, and a passionate plea for justice, Freezing Order is a stirring morality tale about how one man can take on one of the most ruthless villains in the world–and win”–

Hotchkiss, Jody

Jody Hotchkiss was born in New Haven in 1955 and grew up in Greenwich. He went to St. Paul’s School in New Hampshire. After failing his first pre-med course at Colby College he eventually graduated with a degree in art history.

He first eked out a living at the art book publisher Clarkson Potter, an imprint of Random House which became profitable only in later years when Potter published the first lifestyle books of little-known Westport resident Martha Stewart.

Jody left New York to volunteer in the Peace Corps building schools on the equator in Gabon, West Africa (and not a single day of his two years in Africa felt hotter than August in NYC).

Returning to New York Jody worked for studio boss Alan Ladd Jr. at MGM Studios, eventually becoming the VP of East Coast Production.  With the sale of MGM to Ted Turner, Jody sensed that regime change was coming when the Academy Award winning producer Richard Zanuck and his wife Lilly waltzed into Jody’s office at 1350 Avenue of the Americas and started to measure for drapes (Really!). Jody then worked as a literary agent at Sterling Lord finding articles, books and plays to sell for TV and movies such as THE DAY AFTER and GOODFELLAS. After his Darien next door neighbor from Kanter Fitzgerald died on 9/11, Jody questioned his own life/career and opened Hotchkiss & Associates Literary Agency in New York. Now with the name Hotchkiss Daily & Associates the company has celebrated its 22nd anniversary, representing movies such as THE ASSASSINATION OF JESSE JAMES, AMERICAN UNDERDOG: KURT WARNER,  AMERICAN GANGSTER and THE WIZARD OF LIES: BERNIE MADOFF. 

Jody has been married to his wife Kris for thirty four years (and friends still mix up their gender neutral names). He has three children—Sophie in Copenhagen, Graham in New York and Leah in Brooklyn. His grandchildren (so far) are Bjørn (7) and Ada (4).  Jody especially loves cycling in Switzerland and France, sailing in Michigan, and kayaking in Long Island Sound.

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Book Club: Grant by Ron Chernow, September 14, 2022 @ 2:00

 A massive biography of the Civil War general and president, who “was the single most important figure behind Reconstruction.”

Most Americans know the traditional story of Ulysses S. Grant (1822-1885): a modest but brutal general who pummeled Robert E. Lee into submission and then became a bad president. Historians changed their minds a generation ago, and acclaimed historian Chernow (Washington: A Life, 2010, etc.), winner of both the National Book Award and the Pulitzer Prize, goes along in this doorstop of a biography, which is admiring, intensely detailed, and rarely dull. A middling West Point graduate, Grant performed well during the Mexican War but resigned his commission, enduring seven years of failure before getting lucky. At the outbreak of the Civil War, he was the only West Point graduate in the area, so local leaders gave him a command. Unlike other Union commanders, he was aggressive and unfazed by setbacks. His brilliant campaign at Vicksburg made him a national hero. Taking command of the Army of the Potomac, he forced Lee’s surrender, although it took a year. Easily elected in 1868, he was the only president who truly wanted Reconstruction to work. Despite achievements such as suppressing the Ku Klux Klan, he was fighting a losing battle. Historian Richard N. Current wrote, “by backing Radical Reconstruction as best he could, he made a greater effort to secure the constitutional rights of blacks than did any other President between Lincoln and Lyndon B. Johnson.” Recounting the dreary scandals that soiled his administration, Chernow emphasizes that Grant was disastrously lacking in cynicism. Loyal to friends and susceptible to shady characters, he was an easy mark, and he was fleeced regularly throughout his life. In this sympathetic biography, the author continues the revival of Grant’s reputation.

At nearly 1,000 pages, Chernow delivers a deeply researched, everything-you-ever-wanted-to-know biography, but few readers will regret the experience. For those seeking a shorter treatment, turn to Josiah Bunting’s Ulysses S. Grant (2004).

 

An excellent summary by Tom Igoe:  DMA Book Club — Grant by Ron Chernow

DMA Golf Outing at CC of Darien Thursday, August 4, 2022

Attention DMA golfers.  Once again this year, we have the opportunity to play at the beautiful and challenging course at CC of Darien, site of the upcoming 2022 Women’s MET Open.  Our CCD outings the past three years have been well attended and a lot of fun.  We’ll again have a shotgun tee off in the morning and meet back in the Clubhouse for an optional lunch.  Greens Fees will be $105; Cart fee is $40; lunch is $25.  More details to follow.
 
If you want to join the action, save the date and notify Bob McGroarty, (rgmcg@me.com), of your interest.

Dec. 14, 2022: Dwight Chapin, “The President’s Man”

Dwight Lee Chapin will speak to us about his new book The President’s Man | The Memoirs of Nixon’s Trusted Aide (William Morrow). Dwight will share the background on the book and why he wrote it, provide an overview of his relationship with President Nixon, and describe first-hand accounts of the historic and fascinating events and happenings of the Nixon era of which he was an eyewitness.

Dwight was born in Wichita, Kansas on December 2, 1940. He was a field worker on Richard Nixon’s 1962 gubernatorial campaign while he was still in college. From 1967-68, he worked as the Personal Aide to former Vice President Richard Nixon during his presidential campaign. After Nixon’s election victory, he became Special Assistant to the President, serving as Appointments Secretary. He held that position from 1969 until he became Deputy Assistant to the President in 1971. Dwight was named one of the “Ten Outstanding Young Men” by the Jaycees in 1972 for his contribution to President Nixon’s visit to China. He remained in his role as Deputy Assistant until he left the White House Staff in March 1973. Revealing in-depth memoirs about his time with Nixon, The President’s Man is Dwight’s first book and was published in February 2022.

From Richard Nixon’s “You-won’t-have-Nixon-to-kick-around-anymore” 1962 gubernatorial campaign through his world-changing trips to China and the Soviet Union and epic downfall, Dwight was by his side. As his Personal Aide and then Deputy Assistant in the White House, Dwight was with him in his most private and most public moments. He traveled with him, assisted, advised, strategized, campaigned and learned from one of America’s most controversial presidents. As Bob Haldeman’s protege, Dwight worked with Henry Kissinger in opening China—then eventually went to prison in the aftermath of Watergate although he had no involvement in it.

In 1986, Dwight created his own consulting company, Chapin Enterprises. He also remained active in politics and worked on Ronald Reagan’s 1980 and 1984 presidential campaigns and George H. W. Bush’s 1988 presidential campaign. He later went on to work as a business consultant, mentor, and public speaker. Currently, retired, Dwight resides in Riverside, Connecticut with his wife Terry. They are blessed with five children between them and fifteen grandchildren.

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Arranged by Tom Igoe

Dec. 7, 2022: Ali Ramsteck: “The Vital Role of the Department of Human Services in Darien”

Alexandra “Ali” Ramsteck, the Director of the Department of Human Services in Darien, will lead a discussion on the vital role that the Department plays in our community. In particular, the Department provides a wide variety of services, including supportive counseling, assessments for benefits and program eligibility, as well as case management for any Darien resident. In addition, the organization provides crisis intervention, assistance with mental health, substance abuse and domestic violence issues, and emergency financial assistance.

Ali has been a resident of Darien for 19 years along with her 3 daughters. She received her bachelor’s degree in Human Development and Sociology from Boston College. Upon graduation, she entered Columbia University and received a master’s degree in Clinical Social Work. Ali began her career at New York Presbyterian Hospital Cornell, Westchester Division where she worked for 8 years, initially on the Children’s Inpatient Psychiatric Unit and then as the Senior Social Worker on the Geriatric Inpatient Psychiatric Unit.

Ali has been working for the Darien Human Services Department since January 2012. She began as a part-time Case Manager and was later promoted to full time Assistant Director in April 2016. In April of 2017, Ali was promoted to Director of the Department which currently serves hundreds of clients.

In addition to serving as Director of Human Services, Ali has extensive community involvement, serving as a member of or working with a variety of other service organizations, including: At Home in Darien; the Human Services Planning Council; the Darien/New Canaan Unit of Salvation Army; the Darien Domestic Abuse Council; the State of Connecticut Municipal Veteran Service; the Abilis/Darien YMCA Project SEARCH Steering Committee; the American Rescue Plan Act of 2021 (ARPA) Committee for Darien; and Darien’s Juvenile Review Board .

Ali also serves as Chair of the Darien Mental Health Task Force, which Darien recently created following the untimely deaths by suicide earlier this year. The purpose of the Task Force, comprised of mental health experts and key community leaders, has been to address the acute mental health issues in our Town, to communicate closely and coordinate all the services and supports currently being offered to the Darien community, and to develop suicide prevention and postvention plans.

Arranged by Frank DeLeo

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Nov. 30, 2022: Griffith Mann, “Unicorns and Heroes: John D. Rockefeller, Jr. and Tapestries at The Met Cloisters.”

Dr. C. Griffith Mann will present a talk entitled “Unicorns and Heroes: John D. Rockefeller, Jr. and Tapestries at The Met Cloisters,” an in-depth look at the Unicorn Tapestries and the Heroes Tapestries. The Unicorn Tapestries are among the most beautiful and complex works of art from the late Middle Ages that survive. Luxuriously woven in fine wool and silk with silver and gilded threads, the tapestries vividly depict scenes associated with a hunt for the elusive, magical unicorn. The Heroes Tapestries, representing the Hebrew heroes (Joshua and David), the Christian hero (King Arthur), and the pagan heroes (Alexander the Great and Julius Caesar), are thought to have been made around 1400. Once part of a larger ensemble featuring Nine Heroes, these remarkable tapestries are among the earliest large-scale tapestries to survive from a moment when these ensembles were part of princely collections, and are currently being conserved at the Met.

By way of background, the Metropolitan Museum of Art possesses the finest, most comprehensive collection of Medieval and Byzantine art in the western hemisphere. It is held in two locations: the galleries of the Met’s main building on 5th Avenue and The Met Cloisters in Fort Tryon Park. This talk will explore the history of these two unique sets of tapestries on view at the Cloisters.

Dr. Mann was appointed The Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Michel David-Weill Curator in Charge of the Department of Medieval Art and the Met Cloisters in September 2013. In this role, he is responsible for the medieval collections and curatorial staff in the Met’s main building, and for directing the staff and operations of the Met Cloisters, the branch of the Metropolitan Museum dedicated to the art and architecture of medieval Europe. Dr. Mann received his B.A. in art history and history from Williams College, and his Ph.D. in medieval art from The Johns Hopkins University. A specialist in the arts of late medieval Italy, he has published on civic patronage, painting, and devotion in Tuscany. As a curator, Dr. Mann has worked on exhibitions on the medieval cult of relics, the art and archaeology of medieval Novgorod, and French manuscript illumination of the 13th century.

Arranged by Tom Igoe

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