Greetings to the Hale and Hearty!
Due to the time of year, bug spray might come in handy. Travel time is about twenty-five minutes. Post hike, we will retire to the Red Rooster, in Wilton for a communal repast.
Alec Wiggin
Greetings to the Hale and Hearty!
Due to the time of year, bug spray might come in handy. Travel time is about twenty-five minutes. Post hike, we will retire to the Red Rooster, in Wilton for a communal repast.
Alec Wiggin
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Life on our planet as you’ve never seen it before
A team of astronauts in the International Space Station collect meteorological data, conduct scientific experiments, and test the limits of the human body. But mostly they observe. Together they watch their silent blue planet, circling it sixteen times, spinning past continents and cycling through seasons, taking in glaciers and deserts, the peaks of mountains and the swells of oceans. Endless shows of spectacular beauty witnessed in a single day.
Yet, although separated from the world they cannot escape its constant pull. News reaches them of the death of a mother, and with it comes thoughts of returning home. They look on as a typhoon gathers over an island and people they love, in awe of its magnificence and fearful of its destruction.
The fragility of human life fills their conversations, their fears, their dreams. So far from earth, they have never felt more part – or protective – of it. They begin to ask, what is life without earth? What is earth without humanity?
From New York Times bestselling author Hampton Sides, an epic account of the most momentous voyage of the Age of Exploration, which culminated in Captain James Cook’s death in Hawaii, and left a complex and controversial legacy still debated to this day
On July 12th, 1776, Captain James Cook, already lionized as the greatest explorer in British history, set off on his third voyage in his ship the HMS Resolution . Two-and-a-half years later, on a beach on the island of Hawaii, Cook was killed in a conflict with native Hawaiians. How did Cook, who was unique among captains for his respect for Indigenous peoples and cultures, come to that fatal moment?
Hampton Sides’ bravura account of Cook’s last journey both wrestles with Cook’s legacy and provides a thrilling narrative of the titanic efforts and continual danger that characterized exploration in the 1700s. Cook was renowned for his peerless seamanship, his humane leadership, and his dedication to science-–the famed naturalist Joseph Banks accompanied him on his first voyage, and Cook has been called one of the most important figures of the Age of Enlightenment. He was also deeply interested in the native people he encountered. In fact, his stated mission was to return a Tahitian man, Mai, who had become the toast of London, to his home islands. On previous expeditions, Cook mapped huge swaths of the Pacific, including the east coast of Australia, and initiated first European contact with numerous peoples. He treated his crew well and endeavored to learn about the societies he encountered with curiosity and without judgment.
Yet something was different on this last voyage. Cook became mercurial, resorting to the lash to enforce discipline, and led his two vessels into danger time and again. Uncharacteristically, he ordered violent retaliation for perceived theft on the part of native peoples. This may have had something to do with his secret orders, which were to chart and claim lands before Britain’s imperial rivals could, and to discover the fabled Northwest Passage. Whatever Cook’s intentions, his scientific efforts were the sharp edge of the colonial sword, and the ultimate effects of first contact were catastrophic for Indigenous people around the world. The tensions between Cook’s overt and covert missions came to a head on the shores of Hawaii. His first landing there was harmonious, but when Cook returned after mapping the coast of the Pacific Northwest and Alaska, his exploitative treatment of the Hawaiians led to the fatal encounter.
At once a ferociously-paced story of adventure on the high seas and a searching examination of the complexities and consequences of the Age of Exploration, THE WIDE WIDE SEA is a major work from one of our finest narrative nonfiction writers.
The dramatic and consequential history of Germany’s short-lived experiment with democracy between the world wars Out of the ashes of the First World War, Germany launched an unprecedented political its first democratic government. The Weimar Republic, named for the city where it was established, endured for only fifteen years before it was toppled by the insurgent Nazi Party in 1933. In Vertigo, prizewinning historian Harald Jähner tells the Republic’s full story, capturing a nation caught in a whirlwind of uncertainty and struggling toward a better future. In the aftermath of World War I, Germany was buffeted by political partisanship, economic upheaval, and the constant threat of revolutionary violence. At the same time, many Germans embraced newly liberated lifestyles. They flouted gender norms, flooded racetracks, and dance halls, and fostered a vibrant avant-garde that encompassed groundbreaking artists like filmmaker Fritz Lang, painter Wassily Kandinsky, and architect Walter Gropius. But this new Germany sparked a reactionary backlash that led to the Republic’s fall to the Nazis and, ultimately, the conflagration of World War II. Blending deeply researched political history with the firsthand experiences of everyday people; Vertigo is a vital, kaleidoscopic portrait of a pivotal moment in German history.
Date: July, 7, 2025
Location: Oak Hills Golf Course
Time: 1PM shotgun start, staging at 12:30PM
Format: Scramble
Cost: $110 per golfer includes green’s fee, cart, tips, prizes and
$20 donation to At Home in Darien
Greens/Tee Signs: $150 per sign, net proceeds (estimated to be $135
per sign) to go to At Home in Darien
Mulligans: $10 per mulligan, max 4 per foursome, sold during
staging, cash only
Food: Odeens restaurant will be open prior to the event for lunch
Beverage and snacks available at the halfway house and
roving refreshment carts – cash only
After Golf: Awards, brief remarks, cash bar on the patio — nibbles and
snacks to be provided
To the members of the DMA and friends,
Please join us for an afternoon of golf at Oak Hills Golf Course on Monday, July 7, 2025 with a 1PM shotgun start, 12:30PM staging in carts in the parking area. It will be a scramble format, with prizes for the winning foursome and runners up. Golf cost of $110 per person includes golf green’s fee, cart rental, tips, prizes and a $20 donation to At Home in Darien. Greens/Tee signs are being sold for $150 per sign, with net proceeds to go to At Home in Darien. Mulligans ($10@, max 4 per foursome with proceeds going to At Home in Darien) will be sold for cash during the staging. There will be a brief awards ceremony and reception with cash bar at Odeens (nibbles and snacks to be provided) after golf. For those wishing to have lunch at the course prior to the event, Odeens restaurant will be open offering a full menu available for purchase. There is also a halfway house after the 9th hole offering beverages and snacks, as well as roving refreshment carts on the course – both are cash only.
Please contact Frank Gallagher (francis.gallagher100@gmail.com) if you would like to play or bring a foursome or purchase a green/tee sign. We currently have 19 foursomes signed up and would like to get to 25 foursomes. The event is open to men and women, DMA members and friends of DMA members and friends of At Home in Darien. Checks for golf ($110 per person) and tee/green signs ($150 per sign) at to be made out to the Darien Men’s Association and mailed to the Darien Men’s Association, 274 Middlesex Road, Darien, CT 06820 Attention: Bert von Stuelpnagel. All net proceeds from the event will be passed through to At Home in Darien.
The Darien Men’s Association (“DMA”) is a non-profit organization affiliated with the Darien Community Association (“DCA”). The DMA is a group of roughly 350 retired and semi-retired men from Darien who meet weekly from mid-September through early June at the DCA in a spirit of comradery and shared interests in a variety of activities. A key feature of the DMA meetings is a speaker series involving talks from a variety of business, academic, political, media, and sports figures. The DMA agreed early this year to provide support to At Home in Darien in the form of donations and volunteer service. To learn more about the DMA visit their website at www.dariendma.org.
At Home in Darien is a non-profit organization based at Town Hall in Darien whose mission is to empower seniors in Darien to stay in their homes and be safe, healthy and socially connected. At Home provides services to seniors including transportation, shopping, light household chores that enable seniors to stay in their homes. For more information on At Home in Darien please visit their website (athomeindarien.org)
DMA/At Home in Darien Golf Event Committee
Frank DeLeo
Frank Gallagher
John Craft
Jay Bennett
Bob Conologue
Chris Jones
Mark Bergen
Bob McGroarty
Jerry Crowley
Carla Gambescia is an award-winning author, lecturer, travel journalist and photographer who will discuss the fascinating history of our Christmas traditions. Get in the Christmas spirit early, as the DMA holiday party will be held on the same day as Carla’s presentation.
Have you ever wondered how some of our most cherished holiday traditions came to be? For example, where does the custom of giving presents originate, and why do we hang stockings by the chimney? Why do we decorate Christmas trees with candy canes and not candy rings? The ritual celebrations we hold closest to our heart have themselves been subject to considerable improvisation over the centuries.
Santa Claus has had a much longer historical journey with far more twists and turns than his annual one-night circumnavigation known to billions. The progenitor of today’s Santa was born in the eastern Mediterranean region — not in Europe — at the time of the Roman Empire. His legend evolved over the centuries as far away as northern Europe. But who was the ancestor of Santa? How did he evolve into the modern-persona of a rotund, jolly old fellow in a red suit who brings Christmas presents down a chimney to children? Variously known through history as Santa Claus, Sinter Klaus or Kris Cringle, you’ll be surprised to learn that he was originally St. Nicholas of Bari who was a bishop in what is today’s Turkey.
Carla spoke to the DMA in 2019 about her book La Dolce Vita University: An Unconventional Guide to Italian Culture from A to Z and then again in 2022 about Italian culture. She has written about and toured every region of Italy on foot or by bicycle and conceived and co-led the Giro del Gelato bicycle tour, which Outside magazine rated a Best Trip in Western Europe. For eight years, she owned and operated Via Vanti! Restaurant & Gelateria in Mount Kisco, which won plaudits for its innovative Italian cuisine, extraordinary gelato (named Best Gelato Shop in New York), and ongoing program of culinary and cultural events.
Arranged by Charles Salmans
Summary of Carla Gambescia’s Presentation
Carla Gambescia explored the surprising historical roots of Christmas traditions, weaving together religion, folklore, art and cultural evolution. She began not with the nativity, but with Santa Claus, tracing his origins to St. Nicholas, a 4th-century Greek bishop born in what is now Turkey. Nicholas became associated with Bari, Italy, after his relics were stolen and brought there in 1087. His reputation for generosity — especially the legend of secretly providing gold to save three impoverished daughters — laid the foundation for gift-giving traditions, stockings hung by the chimney and enduring symbols like the three gold balls often shown in his imagery.
Gift-giving originally took place on St. Nicholas Day (December 6), but during the Protestant Reformation, Martin Luther shifted the custom to December 25, refocusing Christmas on Jesus while keeping the popular tradition alive. Over time, St. Nicholas morphed into Santa Claus, whose modern image was shaped decisively by the 1823 New York poem A Visit from St. Nicholas and later amplified by Coca-Cola advertising in the 20th century. The candy cane mimics Nicholas’s Bishop’s staff.
Carla explained that December 25 was not Jesus’s actual birthday, but a date chosen in the 4th century to align Christianity with Roman pagan festivals such as Saturnalia and Sol Invictus, easing conversion through cultural blending. These festivals contributed traditions like candles, evergreens, feasting and public celebration.
She contrasted the Gospels of Matthew and Luke, noting that Matthew emphasized kings, prophecy and danger (the Magi, Herod and the flight into Egypt), while Luke presented a humbler story centered on Mary, shepherds and the manger. Modern nativity scenes blend both accounts.
A pivotal moment in Christmas tradition came in 1223, when St. Francis of Assisi created the first live nativity scene in Greccio, making the story accessible to ordinary people. This practice spread throughout Italy, especially Naples, which became famous for elaborate crèches filled with everyday figures alongside sacred ones.
Carla concluded by describing Italian customs surrounding Epiphany, including La Befana, festive foods, New Year’s rituals and symbols of renewal — highlighting how Christmas remains a living blend of faith, history and joyful human creativity.
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