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Speaker programs at Wednesday DMA Meetings

Nicholas Bellantoni, “LIVING THEIR ENEMIES; DYING THEIR GUESTS”, May 29, 2024 at 10:00

 

 Possible Revolutionary War Soldier Burials, Ridgefield, CT

In December 2019, the discovery of skeletal remains beneath an early 18th Century house near the site of a pivotal Revolutionary War battle could be the first time in state history that soldiers from the Revolution have had their remains recovered from the field of battle.

Subsequent excavations by the interim state archaeologist, Nick Bellantoni, with assistance from the Friends of the Office of State Archaeology, Inc., and University of Connecticut graduate students, have yielded skeletons of robust adult men lying in a mass grave that appears to be haphazardly dug. The burials are located in the area of the Revolutionary War Battle of Ridgefield (April 27, 1777) and may be associated with the battle.

The current state archaeologist and the state archaeologist emeritus will discuss the Battle of Ridgefield, archaeological excavations, material culture studies and the projected forensic analyses of these potential military burials.

 

Dr. Nicholas F. Bellantoni serves as the emeritus state archaeologist with the Connecticut State Museum of Natural History at the University of Connecticut. He received his doctorate in anthropology from UConn in 1987 and was shortly thereafter appointed state archaeologist. His duties primarily included the preservation of archaeological sites in the state. He serves as an Adjunct Associate Research Professor in the Department of Anthropology at UConn and resided as former presidents of the Archaeological Society of Connecticut and President of the National Association of State Archeologists.

His research background includes the forensic archaeology and faunal analysis from eastern North America. Nick is the author of two books written for the general public: The Long Journeys Home: The Repatriation of Henry Opukaha’ia and Albert Afraid of Hawk and “And So The Tomb Remained”: Exploring Archaeology and forensic Science Within Connecticut’s Historical Family Mausolea. He has been excavating in Connecticut for almost 40 years.

Speaker suggested by Gary Banks.

Leroy Bull, “The Art and Craft of Dowsing”, May 22, 2024 at 10:00


The Art and Craft of Dowsing

Dowsing is a technique for searching for underground water, minerals, or anything invisible by observing the motion of a pointer (traditionally a forked stick) or changes in direction of a pendulum in response to unseen influences. Leroy Bull will take us through the art and craft of dowsing including: how we presently intuit these techniques work; different types of dowsing using information, maps and remote viewing; establishing a signal system so you can understand the answers you get; and more.

 

Leroy Bull is an international master dowser, author, prior president of the American society of dowsers, (ASD) and the international coordinator for the ASD. Bull served on the ASD board of trustees for 14 years. He has been dowsing for over 68 years on all kinds of targets: water, people, pets, minerals, pipes, wires, time capsules, and more. Leroy has successfully dowsed over 3300 water wells on 4 continents and 4000 earth energy projects. He has taken 12 trips to Japan to find time capsules for schools while on T.V.  Leroy has been in the New York Times three times, in Smithsonian and more recently in Outside magazine.

Speaker suggested and arranged with the help of Ric Grefe.

 

 

 

Jon Zagrodzky, “State of the Town”, May 15, 2024 at 10:00

An Update on Darien Town Government

DMA member and Darien First Selectman Jon Zagrodzky will provide an update on Town government including overall strategy, Great Island, new commercial developments, flooding investments and the FY 2025 budget process. Jon plans to leave ample time for Q&A and promises that no topic is off limits!

Jon E. Zagrodzky serves as First Selectman for the Town of Darien, having been elected to this position on November 7, 2023. Jon’s prior Town roles include: member of the Board of Selectmen; member and chairman of the Board of Finance; member of the Town and Police Pension Board; member of the Public Works Garage and Ox Ridge School Building Committee Board; member and president of the Darien Historical Society.

Until his December 2023 retirement, Jon served as COO and CFO at Rhône Group, LLC, a middle market private equity firm, where he was responsible for finance, operations, human resources, administration, information technology, and business planning. Prior to Rhône, he was CAO and Chief Compliance Officer at Oak Hill Capital Management and before that spent 16 years at McKinsey & Company.

Jon earned a BA in Economics and Romance Languages from Washington & Lee University and an MBA from The Wharton School.  He is a commercial pilot and owns a Piper Seneca III. Jon moved to Darien with his wife, Sara, and their two children, Maggie and Jack, in 2005.

 

Steve Wiggins, “Entrepreneurship and Healthcare”, May 8, 2024 at 10:00

The Changing Landscape of Entrepreneurship and Health Care: A Discussion with Steve Wiggins

 In an informal discussion with DMA member Frank Gallagher, healthcare industry entrepreneur and innovator Steve Wiggins will discuss his experience launching 7 start-ups in the 40 years since he first moved to Darien. One of his start-ups grew to rank among the Fortune 500 (Oxford Health Plans) and a recent one was sold in 2022 to CVS in a transaction valued at over $8 billion.  His newest two ventures, based in Norwalk, are building technology that will power the next generation of how health care is paid for and financed. His businesses continue to be at the intersection of technology and healthcare, where he has spent his career.

Steve has served two U.S. Presidents in Healthcare Advisory Roles and has an informed perspective on broader issues facing the nation’s healthcare system. He and Frank look forward to exploring how starting businesses in 2024 differs from 1984, and how the evolution of technology has changed how we launch, fund, manage and evolve businesses in an era that has been re-defined by remote work, artificial intelligence, and the emergence of Web 3.0 business models.

 

Steve Wiggins is a Minnesota native who started his first enterprise, a non-profit organization, upon graduation from Macalester College in 1978.  Accessible Space has since grown to have over 145 residential facilities in 16 states serving individuals with severe mobility impairments who require 24/7 support services.  Steve moved to Darien in 1984 after graduating from Harvard Business School to take a job at a start-up investment firm called General Atlantic.  He left General Atlantic to start Oxford Health Plans, which went public in 1992 and was sold to United Healthcare in 2004.

Steve was the co-founder of Health Partners, which built multi-specialty physician practices;  and the co-founder of Intelliclaim, which built software used by healthcare payers.  He was the founder and CEO of HealthMarket, a health insurance company serving small employers; and the Founder and CEO of Remedy Partners that built pioneering bundled payment programs for the federal Medicare program.  All were sold to public companies. His latest two ventures, Oxbridge Health and OpenNetworks, are incubating in Norwalk, CT.

Speaker suggested and arranged by Frank Gallagher.

 

Michael Friedman, “The Lost Rock & Roll Negatives”, May 1, 2024 at 10:00

The Lost Rock & Roll Negatives of Michael Friedman and the Stories Behind Them

After 50 years buried at the bottom of a file cabinet, Michael Friedman’s never-before-seen collection of photos from his time in the music industry was discovered by his wife, Donna Vita. This time capsule of the images and behind-the-scenes stories offers a front-row seat to music history. Music Manager and Producer Michael Friedman launched his career in the mid-1960s working with folk, blues, and rock & roll musicians who became legends. As an avid photographer with Pentax camera in hand, he kept a visual record of the artists he worked with and their performances, but he lost track of the negatives before he had a chance to print them. His book, EXPOSED: The Lost Negatives and Untold Stories of Michael Friedman by Michael Friedman and Donna Vita features 200 never-before-published photos of the best musicians of the late 60’s and early 70’s. Among them are Janis Joplin, The Rolling Stones, Mick Jagger, The Band, Levon Helm, Todd Rundgren, Kris Kristofferson, The Paul Butterfield Blues Band, James Cotton, Ian & Sylvia, Johnny Winter, Gordon Lightfoot, Tom Rush, Rita Coolidge, and Albert Grossman. Other stories from inside the music business feature Bob Dylan, Bob Neuwirth, Clive Davis and George Harrison. Many of the photos in this book were featured at exhibitions at the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2019-2020 and California Heritage Museum in 2018. Michael will take us through his photographic history and insider’s stories.

 

Michael Friedman’s career in the music industry began in the early 60’s while in college at the University of Arizona where he started Borchetta/Friedman Productions & Coastline Records. In 1966 he worked in promotion and publicity for The Mamas and the Papas, Herman’s Hermits, The Turtles, The Hollies, Glen Campbell, and the Bee Gees. He transitioned to management when he signed and produced an unknown band from Philadelphia called Nazz, whose leader was Todd Rundgren.

In 1968 Friedman joined Albert Grossman, one of the most influential personal managers in the music industry. As Grossman’s assistant and later partner he worked with Bob Dylan, The Band, Janis Joplin, The Paul Butterfield Blues Band, Odetta, Ian & Sylvia, Ritchie Havens, Gordon Lightfoot, and Peter, Paul and Mary. In Woodstock Michael helped Grossman create Bearsville Studios and produced some of the first albums for Bearsville Records.

In 1972 Friedman joined Bert Block managing Kris Kristofferson and Rita Coolidge. Friedman later joined Clive Davis as his Executive Assistant and Director of Associated Labels at Arista Records, where he also headed up the formation of Arista’s music video department where he worked with Time-Life Films to release the industry’s first video concerts for both The Kinks and Dionne Warwick.

In addition to music, Friedman’s other interests included antiques and design, and in 1983 he opened Friedman Gallery in Westport with a wide range of antiques including early American, folk art, art deco, native American and western antiques. His book Cowboy Culture; The Last Frontier of American Antiques was published in 1992. Friedman also founded Artafax, a European design store in Westport, the Ash Creek Saloons in Fairfield and Norwalk, and The Goose American Bistro in Darien.

 

Dan Kolakowski and Steve Aspden, “The New LaGuardia Airport”, April 24, 2024 at 10:00

 

Creating the New LaGuardia Airport

“If I took you and blindfolded you and took you to LaGuardia Airport in New York, you’d think, I must be in some third-world country.”  Vice President Biden, Feb 2014.

Well, LaGuardia Airport is now far from the disaster it once was. DMA member Dan Kolakowski and Steve Aspden, construction Project Directors on both Terminal B (Central Terminal) and Terminal C (Delta) at LaGuardia, will be discussing both the design and construction processes from 2016 through today. Why do the terminals function the way they do? How did it all get constructed while keeping the airport functioning with their full flight schedules? What was the impact of COVID on the project?   Those questions and more will be answered in this “The New LaGuardia Airport” presentation.

 

Steve Aspden is a Global Construction Executive with 44 years’ experience leading the development of major aviation, roadway and infrastructure projects, as well as commercial and hospital projects around the world. Throughout his career, Steve has led as Project Executive on internationally recognized projects including the A1 motorway in Poland, Mater Dei Hospital on Malta, Apple Park (Apple HQ) in Cupertino, CA, The United Nations Headquarters in NYC, LaGuardia Airport Terminal B and LaGuardia Airport Terminal C, accounting for more than $20 billion in project oversight.

Dan Kolakowski received his BS in Civil Engineering from the United States Air Force Academy in Colorado and served out his military commitment in the Civil Engineering Squadron at Loring Air Force Base in Maine. Dan moved to Darien in 1980 working construction projects in NYC over the next 39 years. He was the Project Executive for major construction projects, including the Staten Island Ferry Terminal, Brooklyn Children’s Museum, US Air Terminal at LaGuardia, Terminal One at JFK, all the AirTrain stations at JFK, Howard Beach and Jamaica, most of the new piers and parks in and along the Hudson River for the Hudson River Park Trust, Brooklyn Bridge Park, the complete renovation of the United Nations Headquarters along 1st Avenue, and the new Delta Terminal C at LaGuardia.

Speaker Summary

Dan and Steve told an interesting and informative story about the transformation of LaGuardia Airport from one of the worst airports in America to an award-winning one that is now seen as one of the best through a dramatic rebuild of Terminals B (the Central Terminal) and C (the Delta Terminal). What was possibly most amazing was that this was accomplished while keeping the airport open and providing air service while replacing essentially all the existing structures and roadways. This was especially challenging since LGA has double the passengers per acre than most other large airports putting even greater pressure on moving passengers through a space-compressed facility while construction was on-going.

Dan provided some grounding points around the 4 core airport components — the Headhouse; the Concourse; the Airside; and the Landside — that drive an airport’s design and structure. He then shared an entertaining and insightful video featuring Peter Ruggiero that explained the considerations that drove the design of the new terminals and demonstrated how they were applied to the ultimate design. Throughout it was clear that two key principles of providing more space and enhanced transparency for the traveler were paramount in the design. Peter explained the 3 core terminal design approaches – linear, finger and satellite – and how LGA was once a state-of-the-art finger design that became outdated as the demands of modern air travel and larger aircraft evolved. He then showed how the new design solved these constraints in all areas — check-in, security, amenities/retail space, gate area seating, baggage claim/arrivals, etc.. He explained how the use of elevated structures, including bridges under which aircraft travel to access the runways, together with the extensive use glass, created a larger and more open environment.

Steve and Dan then took us through the incredible logistical challenges that needed to be overcome to bring the new design to life, including the need to eliminate some elements due to cost and insurmountable challenges. The greatest logistical challenge was the need to keep the airport open and operating while building new structures in essentially the same physical space resulting in many short-term solutions for services, including on-going changes to the roadways on the Landside. Steve managed Terminal B construction and took us through the process and steps that resulted in the new satellite terminal design, including the multi-partner funding structure. Dan then took us through the decision by Delta to re-build their terminal which ultimately maintained the finger structure but with more space allowed for larger aircraft, and how both terminals have the flexibility to handle even larger aircraft in the future. Since the Terminal C design, construction and funding was controlled exclusively by Delta, they were able to get the project done more quickly and closer to budget than for Terminal B.

Dan and Steve closed by sharing the original and projected timelines for the project where a 9 year project will be completed in 7.5 years. They noted that some of the time savings came from the impact of COVID on reduced air travel demand which enabled them to shut down some sections of the airport so they could move more quickly with the construction.

Video Presentation

Cliff van Voorhees and Celia Sosa, “Charter Schools”, April 17, 2024 at 10:00

Understanding Charter Schools

DMA member Cliff van Voorhees and LION Charter School CEO Celia Sosa will help us understand Charter Schools, in general, and the how it works at LION, as a specific example. They’ll address general questions like:  do they suck money from public schools; why do unions oppose them; how are they different from district public schools; are they effective; and, should they be encouraged. Then they’ll discuss specific challenges and conflicts faced by LION including: conflicts with other public schools with which they shared a building; teacher and student recruitment; college readiness and applications; impact on the local community; and alumni experience in college. And they’ll answer questions about anything else you might like to ask!

 

The relevant parts of Cliff van Voorhees’ bio start when he was a student at Columbia Business School. At that time, he became a Big Brother to a 12-year-old boy from Harlem and spent many hours with him over a three-year period. After graduating from Columbia, Cliff went to work for the Interracial Council for Business Opportunity in the Teresa Towers on 125th Street and Seventh Avenue, where he helped minority entrepreneurs raise financing for their businesses. When doing that work, he concluded that what was needed most in the community was better schools. Fast forward through 25 years in international banking with stints in Nigeria and England and four years with Instinet Fixed Income, an electronic broker, he found the opportunity to actually do something to address the lack of educational opportunity in the inner cities of New York. On a fulltime basis, he headed up a team of part time contributors to prepare an 800 page application for a charter to run a public school in the South Bronx. After that 2 year application process, a charter was awarded and Cliff became the school’s COO, tending to facilities, transportation, HR, accounting and finance, fund raising and many other aspects of the school. He retired from Hyde Leadership Charter School after serving in the school for about 6 years.

 

Celia Sosa serves as the Chief Executive Officer at Leaders In Our Neighborhood (LION) Charter School. She began her work at LION in 2007 as a history teacher, which was followed by 12 years of service as the High School Director. She participated in the Charter Center’s Principal Support Network and was awarded an Emerging Leader Fellowship in 2009. During her time at LION, she has been involved in developing curriculum, chairing the social studies department, and many extracurricular activities. Some of these activities included developing and organizing the Dynamics of Difference Committee, student interview panels, wilderness trips, and coaching the school’s track team.

Before joining LION, Celia worked as a teacher at The Lorge School and The Urban Assembly School of Business for Young Women. At each organization, she took on leadership roles becoming a Director of School Culture and Dean of Students. Additionally, while at Binghamton University, Celia was a co-founder of the local chapter of INCITE! Women of Color Against Violence. She earned a Bachelor of Arts and a Master of Arts in Philosophy from Binghamton University and was awarded the Clifford D. Clark Fellowship for work on her master’s degree. She received a second master’s degree in education with a concentration in adolescent social studies from Pace University. Celia was a 2005 Teach For America corps member.

Speaker Summary

Cliff and Celia made an enlightening presentation on charter schools, in general, and told the story of the creation and success of the LION school as a powerful proof point of the difference an effective charter school can make for its students and school community.

Cliff opened by explaining what charter schools are and how they get established through the state application process. He answered some basic questions regarding their role in public education, impact on public school funding, differences versus other public schools, why there is resistance to them among teacher unions, and their effectiveness. He explained that charter schools are established by state laws that vary by state — they aren’t even allowed in some states. The primary reason for their existence  is to provide public school choice since, contrary to many peoples’ understandings, charter schools are public schools; on the other hand, school voucher programs are about helping pay for private schools. In this context, charter schools do not drain resources from other public schools, they just provide an alternative. And, since these schools must outperform other public schools to keep their charters, they not only improve the education of their students, but they also force other public schools in the area to “raise their game” to compete with the charter schools for students. To this end, Cliff explained that there are many measurements other than test scores that can be used to evaluate whether charter schools are effective at meeting their educational goals, but using standardized tests as a proof-point, New York City charter schools substantially outperform all other NYC schools and the NY state average on these tests.

Cliff spent some time talking about why teachers’ unions oppose charter schools, and, ultimately, why politics and the strength of teacher unions serve to limit the number of charter schools allowed by a state. He discussed some of the benefits charter schools enjoy such as greater freedom to experiment with different teaching and curriculum approaches and generally greater educational and operational autonomy, while working within the approved charter.

Celia then spoke passionately about LION, which is now the largest charter school in NYC and how, despite its location in the Hunts Point section of the South Bronx that was the country’s poorest school district when LION was established, their students thrive and consistently outperform other low-income public schools and public schools, in general. They produce high school graduation rates in excess of 90%, 3 times the bachelor’s degree rates for their graduates versus the national average for low income-based schools, and an 80% graduation rate for students with disabilities. Celia noted that their student population is among the most economically disadvantaged and reflects the overall school population in terms of students with disabilities, multi-lingual households and other measures that might encumber LION’s success rates, but they haven’t.

Celia discussed the broad LION mission of building students of character and the role of family programs, teacher development and alumni support. She discussed how the focus is on creating well-rounded students with a curricula and school experience that includes the arts, sports, academics and service. In discussing alumni support, Celia noted the College Persistence Fund that was founded/strongly supported by former DMA member Wilder Baker to provide on-going support for LION graduates throughout their college careers. She closed by sharing some stories written by graduating seniors that talked to the role LION had had on their lives and some videos of LION graduates who have moved on to successful college experiences. Throughout her comments, Celia made powerful points about how a supportive yet high-expectation and accountability environment that includes the entire school community (students, teachers, family) enables LION’s success despite the challenges of being in a community where crime, drugs and gang wars are commonplace and easy barriers to positive results.

In an emotional closing, Cliff thanked those who helped and supported his efforts to gain approval to create and build LION into what it is today and announced his goal of creating an endowment for the school to further its mission as part of his go-forward work for the school.

Video Presentation

Art Gottlieb, “Understanding and Living with Dementia”, April 10, 2024 at 10:00

Understanding and Living with Dementia

Through improved lifestyles, diet and medical treatment people are living longer than generations past. It is not uncommon for families to contain a member who has been diagnosed with some form of dementia. This talk will cover the major types of this illness and provide strategies for managing dementia and its implications when it impacts your family.

 

Art Gottlieb received his undergraduate degree in Psychology in 1987 from the State University of New York at Purchase and his Master of Social Work in 1991 from Hunter College in Manhattan. Maintaining licenses as a  Master Social Worker in New York and a Clinical Social Worker in Connecticut, Mr. Gottlieb has additionally earned the credential of Certified Senior Advisor (CSA). A frequent guest speaker at colleges, senior centers and independent living communities throughout Fairfield County, he maintains a private practice of psychotherapy and intergenerational counseling in Milford Connecticut.

 

Speaker Summary

Employing a storytelling/case study approach based on his own personal and professional experiences as a clinical psychotherapist, Art took us through an educational session on the causes, challenges, and management approaches for dealing with people with dementia. His engaging, personable, and often humorous style helped make a sensitive and potentially uncomfortable topic easier to hear about without undermining the seriousness of it.

Art explained how his work evolved from discovering a niche in local psychotherapy practices and then filling the gap working with seniors and their families and, especially, the needs of men. He reinforced what we have heard before from other speakers: that the less well-developed social networks of men make them especially susceptible to loneliness and fewer social interactions which can exacerbate illnesses like dementia.

Art talked about a “typical” patient situation and the family dynamics that often ensue including tension among children, decisions and reactions to each other and their parent’s condition/needs, and how feelings of guilt (“I need to take care of mom”) can heighten problems rather than help them. He emphasized the notion that doing the right thing for them might mean finding others to provide the help they need including an example of his own mother (who does not have dementia) who needs certain types of help that is better provided by someone other than him despite his knowledge and love for her.

A few key points Art touched on for consideration were: ensuring the patient’s dignity/not talking about them in front of them; “incurable loneliness” as the most common complaint of the elderly; and, the frustration of families looking for the “cure” for something that is incurable. Art drew an interesting analogy about life and aging to ascending and then descending a hill (in this case, “the hill of life”) and the psychological and physiological implications of that.

Art spent some time discussing the two types of dementia and some of the “causes”/precursors to them. The first type is caused by vascular damage, largely strokes (either a single large stroke or a series of smaller ones). He explained how the blockages from the stroke impact the brain, drawing analogies to cardiovascular/coronary heart disease, which is also a risk factor for this type of dementia. The second type involves degenerative brain diseases, of which Alzheimer’s is most common.  These diseases are caused by the breakdown in protective fats in the brain that insulate and protect key brain components. For this type, he mentioned some of the negative contributing factors like diet. But he made a major point to mention that genetics/hereditary is one of the largest factors and nothing can be done about that other than to be aware of your risks, do the things that are best to mitigate/minimize the impact of other contributing factors, and undertake lifestyle activities that work against this disease. To this end, he talked about the importance of physical and mental activity and getting out of the house to do things to help keep the brain active and people socially engaged. He emphasized that the programs he has developed for seniors and facilities he works with focus heavily on doing this.

Finally, Art explained the process and distinction between short- and long-term memory and how/why it manifests itself in people with dementia, sharing an easily relatable example of telling someone with dementia the same thing 10 times and not understanding why they don’t remember it. They lack the mechanism to transfer the information into long-term memory. Yet they remember things that were transferred years ago when this mechanism was still functioning.

An indication of how Art’s talk resonated with the audience was the number of people who came up to the stage to take one of his business cards during and after the Q&A session.

Video Presentation 

Steve Kemper, “Our Man in Tokyo: An American Ambassador and the Countdown to Pearl Harbor”, April 3, 2024 at 10:00

The Ambassador Who Tried to Prevent the Attack on Pearl Harbor In 1931, the Japanese army occupied Manchuria. The following year, Japanese naval officers assassinated the prime minister. Conspiracies flourished and anti-West propaganda campaigns swept Japan. Into this maelstrom stepped Joseph C. Grew, America’s most experienced and talented diplomat. For the next decade, right up to the bombing of Pearl Harbor, Ambassador Grew warned American leaders about the risks posed by Japan’s raging nationalism and militarism, as he also attempted to influence Tokyo’s increasingly erratic and volatile foreign policy. The events that unfolded during Grew’s tenure proved to be pivotal for Japan and for the world.

 

Freelance journalist Steve Kemper has written four books and many articles for national magazines. His most recent book is Our Man in Tokyo: an American Ambassador and the Countdown to Pearl Harbor (Mariner, 2022), a behind-the-scenes account of the personalities and contending forces in Tokyo during the volatile decade that led to World War II. It recently won the Dillon Book Award from the American Academy of Diplomacy.

Steve grew up in Louisville, Kentucky. After graduating from the University of Detroit, he taught literature and writing at the University of Connecticut while earning a Ph.D. He has taught writing and journalism as an adjunct professor at CUNY Graduate School of Journalism and at Fairfield University. Kemper lives in West Hartford.

Speaker suggested by Charles Salmans and Gary Banks and arranged with the help of Gary Banks.

 

Speaker Summary

Steve spoke about his book and provided an enlightening view of the activities leading up to the invasion of Pearl Harbor by Japan, a perspective that most people have a limited understanding of, especially relative to our knowledge of the build-up to the war in Europe. His focus was on the role and perspectives of Joseph Grew, the Ambassador to Japan from 1931-1941, with Kemper relying heavily on the personal diaries of Grew to provide an insider’s look into the activities of the time.

Steve started with a brief history of Grew and his service as a career diplomat, serving in 14 posts and being appointed by President Hoover as Ambassador to Japan in 1931 in an effort to stabilize and bring greater harmony to the relationship between the U.S. and Japan. Kemper provided a look into the turmoil in Japan that resulted from a complex and often discordant relationship between the military and political leadership and Japan’s move to a Parliamentary Democracy juxtaposed against an historical leadership approach by the ruling family of the emperor. As a result, Grew dealt with 17 leadership changes in Japan during his tenure there. This was further compounded by the rapid revolution of the Japanese culture as it emerged from a philosophy of closed secrecy to becoming a world power in just 60 years. Japan embraced many aspects of a more open/progressive Western culture which created tension and clashed with the more conservative/traditional view of Japanese culture and values.  This ultimately overflowed into debate, violence and resistance fueled my media that misrepresented the role of the West and the U.S. in fomenting these changes.

While Grew focused on bringing the U.S. and Japan closer together, the rise of political extremism (and distrust among leading power players in the U.S State Department), ultimately undermined his efforts and the hope for peace between the nations. This was exacerbated by Japan’s activities against the civilians and cities in China as well as U.S. resources, forces, property and people in the area during and after the Sino-Japanese War. In fact, Grew counted over 300 instances of “unintentional” acts against the U.S. in the area during the late 1930’s.

Following a brief furlough, Grew returned to Japan in late 1939 just as Nazi Germany began its assault on Europe.  The success of Germany emboldened Japan and their view of their imperial right to control Asia, undermining the U.S. attempts at slowing/managing Japan’s efforts at expansion. Then, in 1941, efforts led by Grew and his Japanese counterpart to reach a peaceful approach to moving forward was thwarted by Secretary of State Hull’s distrust of Japan, leading to Japan moving forward with their alternative plan – an assault on the U.S. Pacific fleet in Pearl Harbor.

Kemper closed with the story of the delayed communication from FDR to Japanese leadership on December 6 that might have stopped the attack the next morning and how Grew was then held as a POW in Japan for 6 months. During this time, he wrote a report regarding what happened and what could have been done differently to avoid this tragedy. The report was rejected (and largely destroyed) when presented by Grew to Hull. Kemper characterized this report as Grew’s answer to the question “what if….”. We’ll never know the answer, but it was Kemper’s perspective that nothing was likely to deter Japan’s actions based on their view of their imperialistic right to control Asia and their willingness to pay whatever price it required.

 

Illeana Douglas, “Connecticut in the Movies”, Mar 27, 2024 at 10:00

Connecticut in the Movies, a Discussion with the Author About Her Book and Perspectives

Illeana Douglas has long been known for shining new light on forgotten films. Now the celebrated actress and film historian turns her focus to the Connecticut movie in her book, Connecticut in the Movies. Told from the passionate perspective of an author who grew up here, the book takes the reader on a cinematic road trip through Hollywood history and Connecticut geography. She defines how the perception of on-screen Connecticut, originally created in Hollywood, has shifted more than that of any other New England state over the decades and provides some surprising conclusions about just what it means to be a “Connecticut movie.”

Ms. Douglas will be interviewed by Peter Gistelinck, Executive Director of the Avon Theatre – Deborah & Chuck Royce Cinema Arts Center in Stamford, CT. Together they’ll tell her story and delve into her thoughts and insights on Connecticut in the movies.

Illeana Douglas has starred in films such as Cape Fear, To Die For, Grace of My Heart, and Ghost World, as well as in the TV shows Goliath, Shrill, Entourage, and Six Feet Under. She is the author of I Blame Dennis Hopper: And Other Stories from a Life Lived In and Out of the Movies. A regular contributor to Trailers From Hell, she’s done memorable film interviews and introductions for Turner Classic Movies, for Criterion Channel, and on her podcast The Film Scene.

 

Peter Gistelinck is the Executive Director of the Avon Theatre – Deborah & Chuck Royce Cinema Arts Center in Stamford, CT. Prior to joining the Avon, he served as the Executive Director of the Wharton Institute for the Performing Arts (2019-2023), President & CEO of the Kalamazoo Symphony Orchestra (2014-2019) and Executive Director of The Chamber Orchestra of Philadelphia (2006-2014). Prior to immigrating to the USA in 2006, Mr. Gistelinck was Director of Sales and Marketing and Co-Artistic Director for the Brussels Philharmonic Orchestra in Belgium and General Manager of Business Affairs for Le Concert Spirituel in Paris, France.

He is a graduate of the State University of Ghent, Belgium with a MA in Musicology and a BA in History of Arts. Prior to earning his degrees, he graduated from the Royal Music Conservatory of Ghent. Mr. Gistelinck also holds the Executive Certificate in Leadershipfrom the Jack Welch Management Institute at Strayer University and the Business of Change Certificate from Columbia Business School at Columbia University.

Mr. Gistelinck is an accomplished producer, composer and orchestrator. He currently serves as a member of the: National Academy of Recording Arts and Sciences, Santa Monica, CA; International Academy of Jazz @ University of Pittsburgh, PA; International Society for the Performing Arts, New York, NY; American Film Institute, Los Angeles, CA; and the Alliance Française of Westchester, NY. He is also a Founding Board Member of the Marvin Hamlisch International Music Awards in addition to his affiliations with several music publishing and author rights organizations.

 

Speaker Summary

In front of a large group, including many guests, Peter and Illeana discussed the history of Connecticut in the Movies through the lens of her book of the same name which she wrote to take the reader on a “cinematic road trip through Connecticut”. She started by showing a lengthy trailer that highlighted the many films shot in the state including what she acknowledged was a bit of a cheat by including “It’s A Wonderful Life”, which wasn’t shot here but the bell that was rung “every time an angel gets his wings” was manufactured in the state.

Illeana noted that her goal with the book was to help create a more specific film identity for the state that reflected the true – and total – sense of Connecticut which she feels has not been well-defined despite the number of movies filmed here. She took us through a brief filmic history, starting with silent films and then moving towards movies where Connecticut was depicted as “the countryside” with rich patrons with country homes. She explained how the state was largely shown as “the place you went to when you left the city”, living in towns and homes that reflected the fruits of striving for success and often defined by “the white colonial with the picket fence”. This was best defined by the very commercial and light-hearted “Mr. Blanding Builds His Dream House” and evolved in the 50’s to deeper, darker movies about what really went on in these towns and homes as part of this striving for success (referencing “Gentleman’s Agreement” and its Darien locale as a specific example). And then darker yet in the 70’s with films like “The Ice Storm” (shot in New Canaan).

Illeana explained how she wanted to show that Connecticut has more dimensions than these wealthy, bedroom communities/suburbs with their hidden stories. In this context, she referenced movies shot in very different locations like Waterbury to demonstrate her goal of telling a broader story and creating a more diverse image than the one she encountered about Connecticut in Hollywood where she/people from Connecticut were often characterized by people she met as “Aryans from Darien”.

She also talked about the enclaves of actors, writers and others in the industry that developed in towns like Weston, Westport and New Milford. And, in the Q&A, she commented on many of the people who helped support the industry in the state and these towns like Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward. And, of course, the role of Katherine Hepburn in helping create the image of the quintessentially Connecticut women.

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Video: Connecticut in the movies 

Erin Harlow-Parker, “Suicide Awareness and Prevention”, Mar 13, 2024 at 10:00

Suicide Awareness and Prevention Strategies

Suicide is a leading cause of death, especially among older men, and it is preventable. Understanding the role stigma plays in accessing help, identifying risk factors, warning signs, and knowing how to talk about suicide are important concepts in prevention and awareness efforts. This presentation will equip the audience with the knowledge and confidence of suicide prevention strategies.

 

Erin Harlow-Parker, APRN (Advanced Practice Nurse), PMHCNS-BC (Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner – Board Certified), has worked in the field of psychiatry for more than 35 years. She received her BSN (Bachelor of Science in Nursing) from Rhode Island College and her MSN (Master of Science in Nursing) from Northeastern University in Boston, Massachusetts. Her practice areas have included inpatient, outpatient, consult psychiatry and behavioral and mental health illness prevention work. Her passions include suicide prevention, treating patients with eating disorders, and reducing mental health stigma. Erin has done countless presentations on suicide prevention, building resilience, and eating disorders to a wide variety of audiences.

In January of 2022, Erin’s husband of 32 years, and prominent Atlanta businessperson, died by suicide. Since then, she has made it her mission to change the narrative on suicide. Erin’s speaking engagements focus on suicide awareness and prevention, with the purpose of educating, decreasing stigma, and increasing help-seeking behavior.

Currently, Erin serves as the Manager of Child Advocacy Programs, Behavioral Mental Health, at Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta and is actively involved in suicide prevention efforts at the state level. In 2018, Erin was awarded the Institute for Healthcare Improvement/National Patient Safety Daisy Award for Extraordinary Nurses.

 

Speaker Summary

Erin provided an informative and powerful discussion of suicide, with a focus on suicide prevention, based on her clinical experience and her very personal experience after her husband died from suicide in January 2022.

She began by sharing some disconcerting statistics about suicide rates in the U.S., especially among older people and, particularly, older men. She shared some of the factors that contribute to the increased risk of suicide as you age and how one of these, loneliness/lack of social connectedness, is especially significant for older men. Erin noted that the suicide rate for people over 65 increased 8% from 2021-2022, likely impacted by the COVID pandemic and how it exacerbated the impact of loneliness/isolation on suicidal feelings and actions.

Erin talked about the role of stigma as an obstacle to talking about suicide and how things like fear, embarrassment, shame and misconceptions about suicide prevent people from asking and talking about it, leading to reducing the chances of preventing suicides. She also talked about “the language of suicide” (e.g., people die from suicide, they don’t commit suicide) and how that, too, is problematic in talking about and addressing the problem.

Erin then went through a lengthy discussion of the suicide risk factors, suicide warning signs and the protective factors that help mitigate these risks before moving on to the crux of her talk –what we can do to help prevent suicide. She emphasized the concept of building resilience which is the ability to handle life’s ups and downs. Erin talked about practicing healthy habits and especially focused on self-care, connectedness and emotional expression. She engaged the DMA audience to help make her point – and personalize the concept – of emotional expression by having members provide relevant examples from their own lives. Through this, it became clearer why suicide can be a greater risk for men due, in part, to how they have been conditioned to deal with and express their emotions.

Before closing with a list of suicide prevention resources, including several local/Connecticut resources, Erin provided five action steps to help support someone with suicidal thoughts. Perhaps most critically (here and throughout her talk), Erin talked about not letting the fear of doing or saying the wrong thing stop you from doing something.

Several thought provoking questions provided the opportunity for Erin to make the additional points about how people in leadership positions (e.g., CEO’s) are at greater risk of suicide and  that suicide risk and protection factors don’t differ as you age, although some of them might have greater salience due to life stage and developmental differences that are impacted by your age.

Erin provided me with a copy of her talk. Anyone who would like it can email me at frankdeleo@hotmail.com.

 

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