Category: Activities (Page 2 of 48)

Activities are gatherings that occur on a regular schedule, usually weekly, to enjoy a specific pastime.

Bowling April 7, 2026

With 75% of the season in the books, it’s fascinating to see how the same person can be so good one week and in the dumpster another. What that means, with 12+ bpwlers most weeks, is that we always have a couple of guys step up every week…and so it was today.

Let’s start with Frank. He was red hot for three months before he went to Florida for a month and a half. And when he came back, he was good but not as good. That changed today! In game one he had a run of seven strikes in a row and had our highest game of the calendar year at 243. In game three he had a six-bagger and a 202 but his split in the tenth kept him from a 600 series by three pins at 597 (+63). Pretty good stuff.

Then there’s Ed Smith. Talk about hot or cold! Of his 22 series this season before today, exactly half were above 500 with a high of 598 and a low of 407. Today “Good” Ed showed up with a 534 series also at +63.

Other plus series were bowled today by Ed Sc (+2), Ian (+10), Mike (+13), Linc (+18) and Dave (+19). We had two BBS — one by Bill and one by Linc. And Ed Sm had two nice split conversions making a 5-7 and a 2-7-9.

Bowling March 31, 2026

After last week’s heroics from the Professor, we were left to wonder who would step up today. With 14 bowlers, someone was bound to, right? Yes, indeed!

In his report last week, Frank mentioned that George Gilliam’s outstanding day should not get lost in the excitement of that day. Well, George backed up his +126 day with a +118 day today. His 544 series included a 212 first game (his highest game in three years)! Another highlight came from Ben, who had his highest series we can remember at 507, his first 500 series in five years! While “only” +87, that certainly qualifies for co-BoD honors. For that matter, the Commish came back from his week off and did what Frank usually does after an absence by bowling a big series of 623 (“only” +77). After rolling a split in his first frame of his day, he got hot and had a 217 in game one. In game two he missed a 7-10 pin spare and still had a 196. Then, after missing a ten pin in the first frame of game three, he still came home with a 210. So, we’ll add Tom as co-BoD.

Other highlights included another good day from Ian at +33, a +23 from Ted, and a +12 from Dave. In the team game, George’s team won one game while Ben and Ian led their team to taking the first two. George added even more quarters to his pocket, winning all three poker hands at his table and also taking the game three quarter from Ben (as did Ted again, reminding Ben not to peak too early ). At his table, Tom won the first two hands (the second with four nines!) and thought he had the third hand won with a flush — until Alex made a tough spare in his tenth frame, allowing him to fill out a higher flush to win.

It’s worth noting that the score sheet next week will show three new names in the “Last 21” column with 160 or better averages as Bill, Ted and George climbed up to that new level thanks to excellent bowling over the past month. Well done to all three!

Bowling March 24, 2026

Today was a day not for the ages but for the aged — in this case, our amazing 92-year-old professor Ed Schecter, who turned back the clock and bowled like he did when he was only 90! Ed had three 200 games, including a final game of 236 for a 650 series! This not only makes him bowler of the day but likely bowler of the year, with a +206 on the day!! Ed — you are my bowling hero!

Lost in all the excitement about Ed was what would normally have been a bowler of the day performance by George Gilliam, who had a 182 and 204 en route to a 552 — +126. Bill Tamme had the only other 200 game and his third consecutive 500 series at 518 (+44). Frank had the only other 500, with a 516 but was still below his average.

In addition to Ed, George and Bill, 4 others were + on the day — Alex (+23), Mike (+69, including a 158), Linc (+39) and Ian (+38).

There were two Ben Briggs spares by two of the day’s better bowlers (Bill and George) and a 3-10 split conversion by Alex. And, not to be totally outdone by Ed, our other nonagenarian, Woody Spurgeon, made a 4-10 split!

The team competition wasn’t one because four of the + bowlers, including Ed Schecter, were on the same team. So, the team of Mike, Ian, John, Bill and Ed Schecter took 30 quarters from the other two teams. Don’t spend it all in one place!

Let’s see what kind of heroics next week brings when the Commish returns.

Bowling March 17, 2026

Wow, what a day we had today at Nutmeg!! Of our 13 bowlers, 11 bowled above their average. Four had 500 series. One had two 200 games. And three (!!!) had their highest DMA series ever.

Ben was +8, including two games in the 150s. Marty was +18, including a 183 second game. Dave was +25. Tom was +27. Bill was +36, paced by a 190 first game. George was +45, thanks to a 179 second game. Ian was +53. Ted was +57, including a 192 second game with a four-bagger. Ed Smith was back to form with a +65, including two games in the 180s. John was +83, with all three games above 135. And Woody was +92, including games of 148 and 152!

The 500 series were bowled by Bill at 507, Ted at 513, Ed at 542 and Tom at 570 (which included games of 201 and 200).

Our three who had their best-ever DMA series were Ian (377), John (431) and Woody (416), all of which are worthy of BoD recognition.

Split conversions came from Frank D (3-10), Ted (9-10), George (5-7), and Ben (3-6-7). And no day is complete without a BBS, which came from Dave.

Team Ed (ESm/TH/IW/BT) won two of the three team games (little wonder given how well they all bowled). Team Woody (WS/AG/BB/TL) salvaged the third game. Ben edged Ted but narrowly lost to George in their game three matches.

We’ll end with a nod to Frank, whose string of 500 series was snapped, but who we were happy to have back nonetheless.

Bowling March 10, 2026

For most of the 14 of us who came to Nutmeg today, it was a very average day with a few exceptions. And even for the others there were flashes of excellence.

Six bowlers were above their average and a seventh, Ben, was on the number. George was +9 as he improved game on game. Ian was +13 thanks to a 135 first game. John bowled a very steady +24. Woody had a +26 thanks to a strong second game of 150. Bill finished strong with a 190 (high game of the day) and had a 500 series on the number (+35). Mike started out with a 133, which paced him to a +37 for the day. Bill and Mike share BoD honors for the day. Mike also had the split conversion of the day, making a 4-5-7.

In the team competition, Tom’s teammates (DS/MR/IW/SG) bailed him out to win two out of three as Tom’s 518 series was quite below average (-37). Dave had two games of 111, only to be done in by his second game. Dave even recorded a BBS.

George went away happy, winning all three poker hands on his lanes. He also edged Ben in their third game head-to-head by two pins, so George filled his pockets with a few quarters.

Perhaps the best part of the morning, though, was seeing Ed Smith walk in after a few weeks’ absence. Welcome back Ed!

Summer Read: Peak Human Sep 9, 2026
What We Can Learn from History’s Greatest Civilizations by Johan Norberg

All golden ages are marked by periods of spectacular cultural flourishing, scientific exploration, technological achievement and economic growth; yet no two are the same. Their beliefs, societies and place in the wider world all vary. Despite this, all previous golden ages have ended, whether it be because of external pressures or internal fracturing; too much hubris or too little wariness. Looking at seven of humanity’s greatest civilizations – ancient Athens, the Roman Republic, Abbasid Baghdad, Song China, Renaissance Italy, the Dutch Republic and the Anglosphere – historian and commentator Johan Norberg seeks to distil their strengths and shortcomings in answering the question: how do we ensure that our current golden age doesn’t end? As insightful as it is riveting, Peak Human is at once a paean to our incredible progress and a warning that we cannot afford to be complacent.

Golf Oak Hills, May 21, 2026

Attention DMA Golfers: The last meeting to sign up for the Oak Hills Golf Outing is this week, May 13.  Steve True will be manning the signup sheet as you come into the meeting room.  Tee offs start at 11am Thursday, May 21 and limited to 24 golfers.  The fee is $66 payable at Oak Hills.  Foursomes will be assigned before the 21st.  It is a fun day with no formal competition.  Using the forward tees is recommended.  Since we are playing through lunchtime, we will have  boxed lunches available.  Steve has the choices at signup.  The lunches@ $18.25 will be available in Odeen’s Restaurant after you sign up in the Golf Shop.  Please arrive 20 minutes before your tee time.

Jerry Crowley,  Steve True

Hike Naugatuck State Forest, May 18, 2026

All Hail the Hale and Hearty!

 

On Thursday, May 18, we will be traversing a path in the Naugatuck State Forest. The trail starts out running north, directly alongside the railroad tracks and then turns 90 degrees to the west. The first part is level and the second portion mildly uphill, with one abrupt declivity on the way. (During this short dip you may choose, like me, to turn around and use your arms for additional balance.) The goats among us (and there are many!) will scamper right through. Our efforts will be well-rewarded, as a rushing torrent is close at hand, with a gorgeous, cascading waterfall as the ultimate payoff.

Carpoolers should meet at the DCA parking lot at 9:30 a.m. Please remember to park your vehicle in the back. For navigation purposes, or those choosing not to carpool, proceed up Rte. 8, use exit 21 and cross over the Naugatuck River in Beacon Falls on Depot Street. Take your next two rights and park facing the tracks just outside the cyclone-fence gateway, where there is ample room. It should take about 40 minutes to drive there from Darien.

For our repast, we will gather afterward at The Tap House in downtown Naugatuck, just north of the bridge.

 

Alec Wiggin

Current Affairs, Why We Can’t Have Nice Things: Improving Infrastructure in America, Apr 16, 2026

Current Affairs for April 2026: Why We Can’t Have Nice Things: Improving Infrastructure in America

The Current Affairs group will meet on Thursday, April 16 at 2PM in the Lillian Gade Room at the DCA and on Zoom. If you have not received the Zoom link, please contact Barry at silver.barry@gmail.com or Doug at dbernacchi@gmail.com.

How many times have you traveled internationally and wondered, “How come they can [run these trains/build these stations/maintain these roads/keep these cities clean/provide public services/provide sufficient energy] so well in this crappy little country but we can’t seem to do it in the USA?” Dan Kolakowski will bring his engineer’s eye view to the infrastructure challenges we face in this region and in the country, and I look forward to a lively discussion. Dan’s background is amazing:

Dan Kolakowski received his BS degree in Civil Engineering from the United States Air Force
Academy. Following his military stint, he worked another 39 years building construction
projects in NYC. The infrastructure projects included the AirTrain from Jamaica and Howard
Beach to JFK Airport, LIRR’s Train Maintenance Facility in Queens, the United Nations
Headquarters, airport terminals for US Air (LGA), Terminal One (JFK) and Delta Terminal C (LGA).
His projects also included the Staten Island Ferry Terminal, Pier 79 Ferry Terminal, piers and
parks along the Hudson River for the Hudson River Park Trust as well as Brooklyn Bridge Park.

But we think of him as “the DMA member who made the miracle happen at La Guardia Airport.” Bring your thoughts and questions! Can you and Dan together bring a little bit of hope to our despair???

Here are a couple of pre-reads that Dan has suggested:
– Four ways to make wiser infrastructure investments | Brookings
– How much does the US federal government spend on infrastructure each year | USAFacts

And this on the California High-Speed Rail Debacle:
– https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/04/us/high-speed-rail-california.html?unlocked_article_code=1.ZlA.zMjT.lvz0otw-6cX2&smid=url-share
– The 60 Minutes segment from April 5, 2026 – https://youtu.be/9Hm0_-bOB4Y?si=IIs2h2CzZmNl_gzP

Thanks to Charles Salmans for suggesting that Dan present this topic!

Hike to Rockwood Hall on Thursday, April 9, 2026

This is to remind you that this Thursday, the Hale and Hearty will explore the sprawling grounds of Rockwood Hall, in Pleasantville, N.Y. This is a truly spectacular property owned and improved at one point by William Rockefeller. The estate borders the Hudson River, affording sweeping views of the River, Tappan Zee Bridge and the Palisades. There is much to explore, so upon arrival we will jointly decide on our route.

For those wishing to carpool, we will meet in the DCA parking lot at 9:30 a.m. Please park at the rear of the DCA parking lot. Travel time is a plump 40 minutes. For those choosing to go directly, there is ample parking opposite the trail head. The lot, however, comes up quickly on your left, just as Phelps Way crosses Rockwood Road. So, be vigilant! Dogs on leash are permitted.

For those seeking sustenance after our excursion, we will congregate at Bridge View Tavern (www.bridgeviewtavern.com), just a few miles south at 226 Beekman Ave. in Sleepy Hollow, which also overlooks the Hudson.

Alec Wiggin

Brass Quintet of the Norwalk Symphony Orchestra on Tuesday, April 14th, 2026 at St. Luke’s Church in Darien 

The Social Events Committee is pleased to announce the 6th annual evening of dinner and musical entertainment provided by the Brass Quintet of the Norwalk Symphony Orchestra on Tuesday, April 14th, at St. Luke’s Church in Darien (specifically, the auxiliary building behind the church).

Doors will open at 6:15 with cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, followed by a buffet dinner at 6:45. The concert will begin at 7:15 with a repertoire of old favorites from years past, including a brief explanation of their historical context.

Due to the popularity of this event in past years we expect this event will be sold out, so please sign up early.

Cost is $70.00 per person, guests are welcome.

Please R.S.V.P. to Jerry Crowley at (203) 247-4675 or by email; jerrycrowley4@gmail.com.

A sign-up sheet will also be available at the DMA weekly meetings.

Payment may be made by cash or check payable to DMA.

If paying by mail, please send your check to:

Darien Men’s Association

c/o the Darien Community Association

274 Middlesex Road, Darien, CT 06820

Attention: Jerry Crowley

 

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