Category: Activities (Page 4 of 34)

Activities are gatherings that occur on a regular schedule, usually weekly, to enjoy a specific pastime.

Current Affairs: “Order in the Court!”, Dec 18, 2025

We have a great one coming up for you on Thursday, December 18 at 2PM in the Lillian Gade Room at the DCA and on Zoom (link provided below).

Our topic will be: The U.S. Supreme Court and the Constitution | The Operation of the Court in a Challenging Era
Graciously presenting this most relevant of subjects will be Tom Igoe. Many of you know Tom as a singer and past DMA President, but he also is an attorney who was chairman of a national law firm. He has taken a deep dive into the workings of the Court, and we are all in for a fascinating and enlightening hour.

Tom has put together a terrific reading list for us.  See separate email.
As always, our goal is to share knowledge through informed discussion. This is not the venue for partisan debate, and we ask everyone to resist any urge to engage in political punditry. Believe me, it will be difficult enough to squeeze this topic into a single hour.

Current Affairs: “Special education reform in Connecticut,” Oct 30, 2025

State Representative Tina Courpas will be our guest to talk about special education in Connecticut. She sponsored a reform bill on the subject, and will discuss how it passed the General Assembly with 100% bipartisan support – a rarity these days! She will discuss her education bill and influential role on the Education Committee as a minority member.

Background readings

    1. Glossary of School Finance Terms.  Click here. 
  • Overview of Special Education Funding in CT.  CT Office of Fiscal Analysis.  Click here.
  • Special Education Law 101.  CT Office of Legislative ResearchClick here. 
    1. Summary of 2025 Legislative Action on Special Education.  Click here.
    2. Full text of 2025 Special Education Bill.  Click here.
    3. Recent CT Mirror Article.  Click here. 

Book Club: Apple in China by Patrick McGee, Dec 10, 2025

“After struggling to build its products on three continents, Apple was lured by China’s seemingly inexhaustible supply of cheap labor. Soon it was sending thousands of engineers across the Pacific, training millions of workers, and spending hundreds of billions of dollars to create the world’s most sophisticated supply chain. These capabilities enabled Apple to build the 21st century’s most iconic products–in staggering volume and for enormous profit. Without explicitly intending to, Apple built an advanced electronics industry within China, only to discover that its massive investments in technology upgrades had inadvertently given Beijing a power that could be weaponized. In Apple in China, journalist Patrick McGee draws on more than two hundred interviews with former executives and engineers, supplementing their stories with unreported meetings held by Steve Jobs, emails between top executives, and internal memos regarding threats from Chinese competition. The book highlights the unknown characters who were instrumental in Apple’s ascent and who tried to forge a different path, including the Mormon missionary who established the Apple Store in China; the “Gang of Eight” executives tasked with placating Beijing; and an idealistic veteran whose hopes of improving the lives of factory workers were crushed by both Cupertino’s operational demands and Xi Jinping’s war on civil society. Apple in China is the sometimes disturbing and always revelatory story of how an outspoken, proud company that once praised “rebels” and “troublemakers”–the company that encouraged us all to “Think Different”–devolved into passively cooperating with a belligerent regime that increasingly controls its fate.” — Provided by publisher.

Hike Ward Pound Ridge Oct 9, 2025

Into the back country for the Hale and Hardy! 

For our Thursday, October 9th trek we will traverse a three-mile trail in the southwest area of the Ward Pound Ridge Reservation in Cross River, N.Y. The elevations are mild, but per usual, some sections are a bit rocky—so, good foot gear is advisable. 

We will congregate inside the park near the end of Michigan Road, just before a roundabout. Michigan Road is the first right after you pass the Ranger’s entry booth. 

Besides the illustrious company of our group, this hike features an unusual artifact—the Bear Rock Petroglyph. The rock carvings of various animals on this boulder were etched by native Americans. For an account of these depictions, a detailed description is offered by a publication of the New York State Archeological Association at nysarchaeology.org. (Of note, the carvings on this boulder were cited by a featured speaker at one of our previous DMA meetings.)

 Per usual, if you choose to carpool, meet at the DCA lot at 9:30am, where we will sort ourselves. When parking for the day, please use the back portion of the lot.

Due to the time of year, bug/tick spray might come in handy. Travel time is about forty minutes. Post hike, for those seeking immediate sustenance, we will retire to Blind Charlie’s in nearby Pound Ridge. 

 Alec Wiggin 

Geoffrey Schneider   

Current Affairs: “American Higher Education at a Turning Point”, Sept 18, 2025 @ 2:00

Our first meeting will be on Thursday, September 18, at 2:00 p.m. in the Lillian Gade Room and on Zoom. The topic is tentatively titled “American Higher Education at a Turning Point”. Our guest presenter is Jeffrey Gray, who retired from Fordham University as SVP for Student Affairs.

Pre-read suggestions:

  1. “The State of Higher Education” – a report by Jeff Selingo published April, 2025 – pdf
  2. “Higher Ed Has a Bigger Problem Than Trump,” an opinion piece by E. Thomas Finan, a Boston University professor, published in The Atlantic on 9/1/25 – https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2025/09/trump-higher-education-trust/684068/?gift=bS7Zc5hkcIYwptsCqJS7sYuNAlGYjp7lYihZvAruTRs&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=share
  3. “6 Higher Education Trends to Watch for in the 2025-2026 Academic Year” from “Higher Ed Dive” August 28,2025 – 6 higher education trends to watch for in the 2025-26 academic year | Higher Ed Dive
  4. “Knight Commission on Intercollegiate Athletics public opinion survey” July, 2025 – https://www.elon.edu/u/elon-poll/homepage/knight-commission-on-intercollegiate-athletics-public-opinion-survey/

 

Our guest presenter, Jeffrey L. Gray:

Jeffrey L. Gray served as the Senior Vice President for Student Affairs at Fordham University, until his 2023 retirement. He began his tenure at Fordham as the Assistant Dean of Students for Residential Life in September 1989, and was named Dean of Student Life in August 1990.  He was appointed the University’s senior student affairs officer in 1996.

Jeff’s career spanned 42 years in secondary and higher education, 27 of which were served in his final role as the Senior Vice President.  In that role, he provided oversight and leadership for all student affairs functions across Fordham’s multiple campuses, and his responsibilities included the leadership and supervision of approximately 15 departments, 25 senior level professional staff members, 250 professional and support staff, 350 contract employees and over 200 student employees.  He oversaw and managed operating budgets of approximately $70M+, and revenue budgets of $95M+.

His management portfolio included the Offices of the Deans of Students, the Dean of Student Services, Residential Life, the University Judicial Process, Hospitality and Dining Services, Counseling and Psychological Services, Student Health Services, Career Services, the Offices of Student Leadership and Community Development, Intercampus Transportation, the McGinley Student Center, New Student Orientation, Disability Services, the Alcohol and Drug Education Programs, Campus Ministry and Intercollegiate Athletics and Recreation.

In 34 years at Fordham, 27 of which were served in an executive leadership capacity as a member of the President’s cabinet and senior leadership team, Jeff had the opportunity to gain skills and experiences in various critical areas, including but not limited to:

  • crisis management
  • problem solving
  • student mental health issues
  • campus health, safety and welfare matters
  • COVID response
  • Athletics oversight
  • communications and media relations
  • student conduct and Title IX matters
  • ADA matters
  • diversity, equity and inclusion initiatives
  • free speech and academic freedom issues
  • management of controversial student clubs
  • strategic planning
  • institutional and operational assessment initiatives
  • human resource management; staff recruitment, retention, training, development and supervision
  • finance and budgeting
  • housing occupancy and revenue management
  • fundraising

 

Jeff has served on non-profit boards, chairing three of them.  He has conducted on campus program reviews, served as a NASPA program reviewer for the national conference, and has served as a peer evaluator on multiple Middle States accreditation visiting teams.

Jeff received a bachelor of arts in psychology from the State University of New York at Plattsburgh, a master of science in counseling and guidance from Syracuse University and a master of science in administration from Western Connecticut State University. Before coming to Fordham, he served as the director of counseling and guidance for the McGraw Central School System from September 1981 to August 1984, Assistant to the Director of Housing at Western Connecticut State University from September 1984 to December 1987 and the Assistant Director of Residential Life at Montclair State College in New Jersey from 1987 until September 1989.

 

Linkedin:         www.linkedin.com/pub/jeffrey-l-gray/7/822/797/

 

Organizers are Barry Silver, Doug Bernacchi, and Charles Salmans.

Golf Woodway CC, October 2, 2025

We are having our final golf outing at Woodway on Thursday, October 2nd.  We are taking names (started at last mtg) and will have 24 players – shotgun start 9AM – cost is $215 which includes golf, cart and lunch.Sign up at the back table during Wednesday meetings or email me.

Bob

Bob McGroarty

Hike Ward Pound Ridge, Aug 14, 2025

Once more into the breach for the Hale and Hardy!

For our August escapade, this coming Thursday we will traverse a trail in Ward Pound Ridge Reservation, Cross River, N.Y. There is a bit of up and down in our 2.8-mile trek, with a high point of about 600 feet in elevation–so no shame in taking a breather from time to time. Per usual, good foot gear is advised, as some portions are a bit rocky.

We will congregate at the Fox Hill trailhead, which is marked by a large sign at the northwestern edge of a large parking lot. This lot is located about 2,000 feet past the entrance’s ranger hut, on the left-hand side of the road. A fee of $10 per car is payable at entry. Dogs on leash are permitted.

While the early part of this week is forecasted to be quite hot, by Thursday, temperatures are supposed to moderate. As of now, the trailhead temperature at 10:30AM will likely be about 83 degrees. You might want to check the weather report before heading out to adjust your wardrobe and provisioning.

Per usual, if you choose to carpool, meet at the DCA lot at 9:30am, where we will sort ourselves. When parking here for the day, please use the back portion of the lot.

Due to the time of year, bug/tick spray might come in handy. Travel time is about twenty-five minutes. Post hike, we will retire to the Rye Ridge Deli on High Ridge Road in Stamford for a communal repast.

Hike On!

Alec Wiggin

Geoffrey Schneider

Golf, Thursday, Aug 21, 2025 at CCD

Hello DMA Golfers,

The next golf outing is scheduled for Thursday, August 21, 9-10 AM, at The Country Club of Darien.  We currently have 21 golfers signed up with 3 openings still available.  If anyone is interested, please contact me by August 10th.

The revised cost for non-CCD members is $213 (includes tax).  Credit cards are not permitted; therefore, kindly make checks payable to The Country Club of Darien.  CCD members will be charged on their house account for the golf cart and lunch.

Final details with foursomes and tee times to follow several days prior to August 21st.  Looking forward to a fun day of golf and lunch.

Best,
Steve True

Hike Bennett’s Pond, Ridgefield, Monday, July 21, 2025

Greetings to the Hale and Hearty!

The intrepid among us will circle Bennett’s Pond in Ridgefield. The terrain is fairly level, with the route a little on the longish side — around 3.0 miles. The trail head begins almost immediately after you turn west on Bennetts Farm Road off Route 7.
There is parking for only about three cars here. So, if these spots are already taken, proceed west for three quarters of a mile where there is ample parking in a lot on the right.  We will shuttle over to pick you up. (See telephone # below.)  Obviously, carpooling works well for this one. So, if you choose this option, meet at the DCA lot at 9:30am, where we will sort ourselves. When parking for the day, please use the back portion of the lot.

Due to the time of year, bug spray might come in handy. Travel time is about twenty-five minutes. Post hike, we will retire to the Red Rooster, in Wilton for a communal repast.

Alec Wiggin

Book Group: Orbital by Samantha Harvey, Nov 12, 2025

Life on our planet as you’ve never seen it before

A team of astronauts in the International Space Station collect meteorological data, conduct scientific experiments, and test the limits of the human body. But mostly they observe. Together they watch their silent blue planet, circling it sixteen times, spinning past continents and cycling through seasons, taking in glaciers and deserts, the peaks of mountains and the swells of oceans. Endless shows of spectacular beauty witnessed in a single day.

Yet, although separated from the world they cannot escape its constant pull. News reaches them of the death of a mother, and with it comes thoughts of returning home. They look on as a typhoon gathers over an island and people they love, in awe of its magnificence and fearful of its destruction.

The fragility of human life fills their conversations, their fears, their dreams. So far from earth, they have never felt more part – or protective – of it. They begin to ask, what is life without earth? What is earth without humanity?

Book Group:The Wide Wide Sea: Imperial Ambition, First Contact and the Fateful Final Voyage, Oct 8, 2025 of Captain James Cook by Hampton Sides

From New York Times bestselling author Hampton Sides, an epic account of the most momentous voyage of the Age of Exploration, which culminated in Captain James Cook’s death in Hawaii, and left a complex and controversial legacy still debated to this day

On July 12th, 1776, Captain James Cook, already lionized as the greatest explorer in British history, set off on his third voyage in his ship the HMS Resolution . Two-and-a-half years later, on a beach on the island of Hawaii, Cook was killed in a conflict with native Hawaiians. How did Cook, who was unique among captains for his respect for Indigenous peoples and cultures, come to that fatal moment?

Hampton Sides’ bravura account of Cook’s last journey both wrestles with Cook’s legacy and provides a thrilling narrative of the titanic efforts and continual danger that characterized exploration in the 1700s. Cook was renowned for his peerless seamanship, his humane leadership, and his dedication to science-–the famed naturalist Joseph Banks accompanied him on his first voyage, and Cook has been called one of the most important figures of the Age of Enlightenment. He was also deeply interested in the native people he encountered. In fact, his stated mission was to return a Tahitian man, Mai, who had become the toast of London, to his home islands. On previous expeditions, Cook mapped huge swaths of the Pacific, including the east coast of Australia, and initiated first European contact with numerous peoples. He treated his crew well and endeavored to learn about the societies he encountered with curiosity and without judgment.

Yet something was different on this last voyage. Cook became mercurial, resorting to the lash to enforce discipline, and led his two vessels into danger time and again. Uncharacteristically, he ordered violent retaliation for perceived theft on the part of native peoples. This may have had something to do with his secret orders, which were to chart and claim lands before Britain’s imperial rivals could, and to discover the fabled Northwest Passage. Whatever Cook’s intentions, his scientific efforts were the sharp edge of the colonial sword, and the ultimate effects of first contact were catastrophic for Indigenous people around the world. The tensions between Cook’s overt and covert missions came to a head on the shores of Hawaii. His first landing there was harmonious, but when Cook returned after mapping the coast of the Pacific Northwest and Alaska, his exploitative treatment of the Hawaiians led to the fatal encounter.

At once a ferociously-paced story of adventure on the high seas and a searching examination of the complexities and consequences of the Age of Exploration, THE WIDE WIDE SEA is a major work from one of our finest narrative nonfiction writers.

Book Group: Vertigo: The Rise and Fall of Weimar Germany by Harald Jahner, Sep 10, 2025

The dramatic and consequential history of Germany’s short-lived experiment with democracy between the world wars   Out of the ashes of the First World War, Germany launched an unprecedented political its first democratic government. The Weimar Republic, named for the city where it was established, endured for only fifteen years before it was toppled by the insurgent Nazi Party in 1933. In Vertigo, prizewinning historian Harald Jähner tells the Republic’s full story, capturing a nation caught in a whirlwind of uncertainty and struggling toward a better future. In the aftermath of World War I, Germany was buffeted by political partisanship, economic upheaval, and the constant threat of revolutionary violence. At the same time, many Germans embraced newly liberated lifestyles. They flouted gender norms, flooded racetracks, and dance halls, and fostered a vibrant avant-garde that encompassed groundbreaking artists like filmmaker Fritz Lang, painter Wassily Kandinsky, and architect Walter Gropius. But this new Germany sparked a reactionary backlash that led to the Republic’s fall to the Nazis and, ultimately, the conflagration of World War II.     Blending deeply researched political history with the firsthand experiences of everyday people; Vertigo is a vital, kaleidoscopic portrait of a pivotal moment in German history.

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