The next DMA Golf Outing is coming up on Wednesday, August 2nd at Sterling Farms starting at 10:30 am.
Contact Peter Carnes.
The next DMA Golf Outing is coming up on Wednesday, August 2nd at Sterling Farms starting at 10:30 am.
Contact Peter Carnes.
On Sunday, June 4, Bob Mitchell, long-time member of the Darien Men’s Association and its President in the 2007 – 2008 period, passed away peacefully. Bob was active in the DMA for many years and was the Grand Marshal of the Darien Memorial Day Parade in 2018. It was perhaps a gift from God that last week he would ride shotgun as part of the DMA parade entourage, partnering with John Schlach and waving to his many friends and colleagues for the very last time. Please view the attachment for information on the wake and burial arrangements.
A very good man. We shall dearly miss him.
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Former DMA member Fred Smith died on August 21, 2022 at his home in the Lathrop Community in Easthampton, Massachusetts. Before moving to Massachusetts in June 2019, Fred and his wife Marny chose the Memorial Garden at First Congregational Church of Darien, where they had attended church services for many years, as their final resting place. There are no longer any Smith children living in Darien, but the time had come to finally bring Fred’s ashes to the garden. Marny, together with Hobie and Chuck Smith and Fred’s stepchildren, Shep, John, Jim, and Jennifer, and Ed Bryan all gathered on June 4th in the afternoon to spread his ashes in the garden. A stone brick bearing his name has been placed in the garden path.
The family members hope that Fred’s DMA friends may find a brief moment to visit the garden (pictured below, courtesy of Alex Garnett) to sit on the garden bench and recall the good times they spent with Fred bowling or playing bridge.
Hiking: Mianus River Park, Stamford CT, June 8 at 10 a.m.
Mianus River Park is a 391-acre nature preserve on the Stamford /Greenwich border. The park, one of a series of green areas in the Mianus River Watershed, features a two-mile stretch of the beautiful Mianus River, forest lands, vernal pools, glacial outcroppings, varied wildlife and rolling hills. The trails are good but feature the usual rocks and roots and some elevation change but anything steep is in short spurts.
We rate this hike of about 3.5 miles as easy to moderate and it should take us about 2 hours to complete. Dogs on a leash are welcome (there are many dog walkers here!) and, of course, bring a spouse or friend to enjoy this hike.
There will be an optional lunch after the hike at Zody’s 19th Hole Restaurant at the E Gaynor Brennan Golf Course near the Park and Stamford Hospital.
DIRECTIONS:
We will meet at the Merriebrook Road entrance to the Park in Stamford. Both Waze and Google Maps respond to “Mianus River Park”. There is parking on the right before the bridge over the river. Do not park on the roads in the area which are marked and patrolled.
CONTACTS:
Dave McCollum
Bob Plunkett
Golf, June 6 – tee time 8 a.m.:
Peter Carnes and Bob McGroarty have scheduled our first golf outing of 2023, for June 6 starting at 8 a.m. at Oak Hills Golf Course, 165 Fillow Street, Norwalk. We have a limit of 24 golfers so if you’re interested get your name on our sign-up list this week. As of this writing there are 3 spaces remaining. Golf will be followed by an optional lunch. Come and join us for this always popular and fun activity! Any questions, please contact Bob McGroarty: rgmcg@me.com
Community Service: May 29, Memorial Day Parade
Our last Community Service event will be marching in the Darien Memorial Day Parade on May 29. Some of our members have reasons they cannot walk the entire parade route, but we have arranged cars to drive you along the parade route. So, all DMAers who want to participate can do so. Travel in style! Please complete the survey sent by email so that we can get a count of how many of you would like to ride in one of the cars.
Frank DeLeo
The author of Killers of the Flower Moon and The Lost City of Z returns with a rousing story of a maritime scandal.
In 1741, the British vessel the Wager, pressed into service during England’s war with Spain, was shipwrecked in a storm off the coast of Patagonia while chasing a silver-laden Spanish galleon. Though initially part of a fleet, by the time of the shipwreck, the Wager stood alone, and many of its 250 crew members already had succumbed to injury, illness, starvation, or drowning. More than half survived the wreckage only to find themselves stranded on a desolate island. Drawing on a trove of firsthand accounts—logbooks, correspondence, diaries, court-martial testimony, and Admiralty and government records—Grann mounts a chilling, vibrant narrative of a grim maritime tragedy and its dramatic aftermath. Central to his populous cast of seamen are David Cheap, who, through a twist of fate, became captain of the Wager; Commodore George Anson, who had made Cheap his protégé; formidable gunner John Bulkeley; and midshipman John Byron, grandfather of the poet. Life onboard an 18th-century ship was perilous, as Grann amply shows. Threats included wild weather, enemy fire, scurvy and typhus, insurrection, and even mutiny. On the island, Cheap struggled to maintain authority as factions developed and violence erupted, until a group of survivors left—without Cheap—in rude makeshift boats. Of that group, 29 castaways later washed up on the coast of Brazil, where they spent more than two years in Spanish captivity; and three castaways, including Cheap, landed on the shores of Chile, where they, too, were held for years by the Spanish. Each group of survivors eventually returned to England, where they offered vastly different versions of what had occurred; most disturbingly, each accused the other of mutiny, a crime punishable by hanging. Recounting the tumultuous events in tense detail, Grann sets the Wager episode in the context of European imperialism as much as the wrath of the sea.
A brisk, absorbing history and a no-brainer for fans of the author’s suspenseful historical thrillers.
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