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Sep 9, 2026
Dr. Richard Morel
Best Practices and Factors for Achieving a Long and Active Healthspan

Men’s Health After 65: What to Do and What to Skip

Core Philosophy

Dr. Morel, an internist with 30 years of practice, emphasizes that while living a long-life matters, the primary goal of medicine should be maintaining an individual’s overall quality of life. He highlights that medical choices are rarely black-and-white. Instead, modern healthcare requires carefully balancing the unique risks and benefits of any given treatment rather than searching for definitive, one-size-fits-all answers.

The Stoplight Framework

To help patients navigate complex health choices, Dr. Morel utilizes a clear, color-coded stoplight system to categorize various medical interventions:

  • 🟢 Green: Options that are strongly recommended and deserve definite consideration.
  • 🟡 Yellow: Decisions that must be personalized based on an individual’s specific circumstances.
  • 🔴 Red: Dangerous, unproven, or unnecessary treatments that patients should completely avoid.

Key Medical Recommendations

  • Cardiovascular Health: Heart attacks and strokes remain leading causes of death, with age and being male serving as the two highest risk factors. A patient’s genetic code and zip code also heavily dictate heart health. Blood pressure should generally target 130/80 mmHg or lower. Statin therapy is highly praised as a top intervention to drastically lower heart attack and stroke risks. Dr. Morel notes that multiple studies prove statins do not cause dementia. Conversely, taking daily aspirin for primary heart disease prevention is now heavily discouraged due to major bleeding risks.
  • Exercise: Marked as the single most critical intervention, older adults should follow a comprehensive four-phase routine. This strategy must include aerobic activity, resistance training, range of motion exercises, and balance training.
  • Screenings and Vaccines: Routine colonoscopies and low-dose lung CT scans for former smokers are strongly recommended screenings. Regular checks for diabetes, sleep apnea, abdominal aortic aneurysms, and bone density are also vital. For older adults, flu, pneumonia, and shingles vaccines are strongly encouraged, with preliminary data showing the shingles vaccine may even prevent cognitive decline. However, the COVID vaccine is deemed a personal choice due to milder current variants.

Brain Health and Emerging Trends

Protecting the heart directly shields the brain, as cardiovascular risk factors heavily influence cognitive function. While new blood tests like Lumipulse can help confirm existing cognitive issues, they are not designed for early screening. Furthermore, clinical trials for amyloid and tau protein treatments carry serious side effects, such as cerebral hemorrhages. Dr. Morel also highlights peer socialization and basic depression screenings as life-saving tools for supporting mental well-being in older demographics.

Finally, the presentation warns against unproven, trendy treatments. Whole-body MRIs, biopeptides, and standard testosterone replacement therapy should be strictly avoided due to high false-positive rates, blood clots, or general health risks. Meanwhile, GLP-1 weight-loss medications are highly effective for specific candidates but require immense caution to prevent muscle loss.

Video Presentation 

Dr. Richard P. Morel

Dr. Richard P. Morel is an experienced internist with over two decades of experience in adult primary care. He earned his medical degree from Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons and completed his residency in internal medicine at New York Presbyterian Hospital’s Columbia campus. Dr. Morel is board- certified in internal medicine and serves as the President and CEO of Stamford Health Medical Group.

Dr. Morel is renowned for his patient-centered approach, emphasizing attentive listening, comprehensive assessments, and collaborative treatment planning. Patients consistently commend his professionalism, thoroughness, and ability to explain medical information clearly, fostering confidence and trust. His commitment to personalized care and extensive experience makes him a trusted choice for those seeking dedicated internal medicine services.

 

Sep 2, 2026
Ed Hynes
Warfare on Long Island Sound During the American Revolution

Ed Hynes’s presentation examines the largely overlooked naval and irregular warfare conducted on Long Island Sound during the American Revolution. Drawing on local records and Kimberly Goodling’s 2021 doctoral dissertation, Hynes argues that privateers played a far more important role in the American victory than traditional histories acknowledge.

The geography of the Sound shaped the conflict. British forces occupied Long Island, while Patriot-controlled Connecticut lay less than ten miles away in places. Connecticut’s numerous shallow harbors protected small, maneuverable whaleboats from larger British warships. Crews—often experienced sailors, traders, and shipbuilders—used these boats to cross the Sound at night, raid farms and ships, capture prisoners, smuggle goods, and gather intelligence.

Privateers were essentially government-licensed pirates. After posting a bond and receiving authorization from Connecticut or the Continental Congress, they could seize British ships and property. Courts were supposed to determine whether captures were lawful and divide the proceeds between the government and privateer crews. The prospect of profit attracted sailors who might otherwise have joined the poorly paid Continental Navy. Privateering also had strategic value: captured supplies and weapons supported the Continental Army while depriving British forces in New York. According to evidence cited by Hynes, Patriots captured seven British supply vessels for every ship Britain seized, causing marine-insurance rates at Lloyd’s of London to soar.

The struggle was also a bitter civil war. Connecticut expelled many Loyalists in 1775, while Patriots fled British-occupied Long Island after 1776. Families and communities divided, and former neighbors repeatedly attacked one another. Notable episodes included the British destruction of Danbury’s supply depot; Return Jonathan Meigs’s successful raid on Sag Harbor; the kidnappings and eventual exchange of Patriot General Gold Selleck Silliman and Loyalist Judge Thomas Jones; and the 1781 destruction of New London and Groton under Benedict Arnold.

Locally, Loyalist Captain Frost’s raid on the Middlesex meetinghouse—present-day Darien—demonstrated careful planning around darkness and tides. His force captured 49 men and 40 horses, transported them through the Fish Islands, and later returned to seize livestock.

Hynes concludes that violence on the Sound continued even after Yorktown because the conflict had become intensely personal. Privateering materially weakened British supply lines, but it also produced fear, retaliation, displacement, and lasting divisions along both shores.

Video Presentation

Ed Hynes, CFA was born and raised in Wilton, CT. He attended Wilton High School where he played both football and lacrosse. In 1977 Ed graduated from The George Washington University in Washington D.C. with a B.A. in Political Science. He subsequently spent most of his career in financial services. As an equity analyst, institutional salesperson and trader he worked with some of the premier investment banking firms in many of the world’s leading financial centers including New York, Tokyo, London, Chicago and San Francisco. In 2001 Ed became a Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA) charter holder, and is currently a Financial Advisor with Merrill Lynch in Westport, CT. He lives in Norwalk.

Ed first became interested in the Revolutionary War as a child when he learned his neighbor’s house was partially burned by the British during the Danbury Raid in 1777. Fascinated by history, he and his late wife visited many important battlefields both here and abroad. Ed has spoken to the DMA  before –  2013 on the Battle of Ridgefield, 2019, about the War on Long Island Sound and again in  2020 on the Origins of the Star Spangled Banner.

We had a great golf outing yesterday.

We had a great golf event yesterday in support of At Home in Darien.  Kudos to Frank Gallagher and his team for putting together an event with more golfers, more sponsors and higher fees that will hopefully generate as much as $10,000 for At Home in Darien versus $7,500 last year.

Once we have the final numbers, I believe we had agreed on putting out communications across our varied vehicles to share our success and to provide exposure to those individuals and businesses who supported the event with tee signs, etc.

Hopefully we have some pictures that can be included on the newsletter and on the website. I took pictures of most sponsor tee signs (primarily to share with the sponsors if we want), but I didn’t take any golfer pictures; hopefully others did. I’m happy to help develop these communiques once we have our final accounting. We should probably arrange a photo op with Frank G. presenting a check to Chris Jones from AHID for our and their use in the communications.

Thanks!

Frank

John Wolcott

John Wolcott, aged 82 and a 46-year resident of Darien, Connecticut, passed away on July 13, 2026 surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Berkeley, California, the son of Oliver Dwight Wolcott and Valborg Kjeldsen Rasmussen, John is survived by his loving wife and best friend, Jane, their two daughters, Kristine Braden and Dana Grunow, Dana’s husband, Benjamin and their son, Charlie and daughter, Whitney, and Kristine’s husband Glen and their two children, Tully and Hannah and last, but not least, a marvelous huge Maine Coon, Tabitha, named for Jane’s great-great-etc., grandmother who dwelt down east in Maine a century or two ago.

After being pulled from pillar to post while growing up in 23 houses including Peru and Trinidad, John kited back and forth between Cal Davis and Cal Berkeley chasing his interests (which might not have included academics), graduated, then served three years in the Army Transportation Corps, first in Virginia (the agony of Engineer OCS), then Colorado (the ecstasy of snow-Vail was just up the road from Fort Carson) and finally the Central Highlands of Vietnam (no snow, but at 2,500 feet, it did freeze!), during which he was awarded the Bronze Star. Leaving the Service as a Captain. John finally got serious, returned to school and earned an MBA in 1973 at Cal Berkeley, again, where for several years he moonlighted as a lecturer introducing incoming MBA students to the marvels of beancounting.

As a newly minted CPA, John joined Price Waterhouse in San Francisco, then transferred to their National Office in New York for a tour of duty, during which the family, having discovered that Darien was a wonderful place to raise children, made a rewarding decision to permanently relocate there. Later in his career, John took on various iterations of CFO for several private wealth management firms featuring extensive international travel. When asked what he did for a living all those years, John would reply, “Colleagues made the money; my job was to make sure we kept it.”

Sitting on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial on their first blind date, John fell head over heels in love with drop-dead gorgeous Jane at first sight. Happily, it only took Jane a little longer before she arrived at the same conclusion and they married the following spring-after only 19 days face to face! Over 54 years of marriage, John and Jane’s greatest joys in life (aside from each other) were their two spectacular daughters, complemented by their own growing families. John and Jane loved to travel together, trekking off to destinations ranging from the usual capitals to exotic outposts in obscure corners of the world, a wanderlust they are highly gratified to have imparted to their children.

John played so-so tennis and attempted golf until compelled to preserve the last shreds of his dignity. He would not have gone to Vietnam except that he failed to break a leg crashing down Vail’s Riva Ridge every weekend just before they closed the chair, a small consolation being that, despite himself, he was able to bash his way down double-blacks. He did board that plane along with fellow OCS graduates and all five were thankfully seated together again returning to the “world” to resume life exactly 364 days, 23 hours later. Back in the USA, John continued to ski, taking Jane and the girls to Snowmass every winter, particularly loving that precious 20 minutes on the Summit chairlift when he got to chat one-on-one with their daughters. They were always happy to ride up with Da (the girls had decided the second “d” was redundant) because he would lend them his toasty gloves to warm their freezing fingers. Once the kids were in college, Jane announced that it was time to trade the Rockies for warm white sandy beaches. John, who would follow Jane anywhere, acquiesced and Hawaii interspersed with Nantucket became frequent destinations.

Musically, John played accordion until begged to stop, and gamely practiced Czerny and Chopin until he arrived downstairs one morning to discover that his parents hated Czerny even more than he did and had sold the piano, after which he transitioned to the Hammond organ, where his teacher told him he might actually become good enough to run a piano bar someday. Finally, inspired by Deliverance, John was able to pick his way on his 5-string through Dueling Banjos-well, the opening riffs, at least.

Living in Darien, John served on the boards of the Middlesex and Darien Country Clubs as treasurer and served in a variety of roles with the Darien Men’s Association from secretary to president, where he enjoyed speaking before the membership weekly revealing the unreported ironies of what really happened “On this Day in History” of History Channel fame. As a final civic effort, John was also elected to serve on Darien’s Board of Finance. In recognition for his service to the military and the Community, John was named the Grand Marshal for Darien’s 2022 Memorial Day parade. Traveling out to camp at the “Grove” north of San Francisco every summer, John was also a long-time member of the Bohemian Club of San Francisco.

John would like to hope he would be remembered for the quip, “Only stubborn when right.” However, most might find a more fitting epitaph to be, “Often wrong, never uncertain.”

Miller, David

David Miller moved to Darien on Memorial Day weekend of 2004 and lived in Noroton Bay for the last 22 years. He retired in January 2026 from a 35-year investment banking career, culminating as CEO of Credit Suisse First Boston Investment Bank.  He and his wife Lisa relocated to Paradise Valley, Ariz but will spend summers in Darien.

David married Lisa in California in 1998, where their first two children, Lauren and Michael  were born.  After moving to Darien, Beck arrived!  All three children were raised in Darien. The Millers’ favorite family activities are traveling and eating out. David enjoys golf at Wee Burn Country Club and more recently, pickleball at Cherry Lawn Park and The Sports Haus in Norwalk.

He graduated from Cornell University with a B.S. in electrical engineering in 1987  and an M.B.A. in finance in 1988.  Go Big Red!

Wander Central Park, Thursday, June 25, 2026

Thursday, June 25, at 8:36 a.m. at Darien Metro-North Station or 8:39 a.m. at Noroton Heights Metro-North Station

On Thursday, June 25, the Wanderers will travel to the northern end of Central Park in Manhattan. We will take the Metro North train to Grand Central that leaves the Darien train station at 8:36 a.m. and the Noroton Heights station at 8:39 a.m. As usual, we will gather at the Information Booth on the main floor of Grand Central and proceed together by subway to the Upper East Side of Manhattan.

We will wander into the northern end of Central Park and enjoy the beauty of the Conservatory Garden, Central Park’s formal garden and one of the most significant public gardens in New York City. Our Wandering will take us past the scenic Harlem Meer; the scenic overlook and canons at Fort Clinton; the acclaimed Davis Center, which opened last year; and through the North Woods, the largest woodland in Central Park, which contains unusual physical features, including the Ravine, the Loch and the Pool.

The Wanderers plan to have lunch at Sylvia’s Restaurant, 328 Malcolm X Blvd (between 126th Street and Lenox Avenue). After lunch, we will complete our Wandering by strolling to the Metro-North Railroad Station at 125th Street and returning home via Metro-North.

Contact:  Chet Cobb  or Harry Bergen

Summary:

“On Thursday, June 25th, twenty-five Wanderers were happy to experience warm and sunny weather during a wandering across the northern end of Central Park.   Entering Central Park through the ornate Vanderbilt Gate at 103rd Street and Fifth Avenue, the Wanderers were immediately  impressed by the well-landscaped beauty of the Conservatory Garden, including the Italianate Center Garden with its semicircular pagoda, the French parterre North Garden with its Untermyer Fountain and statue of the Three Dancing Maidens and the  English style South Garden with its Burnett Fountain.

The wandering took the Wanderers past the scenic Harlem Meer, the historic overlook and canons at Fort Clinton, Nutter’s Buttery, McGowan’s Pass, the architecturally acclaimed Davis Center with its large swimming pool and through the North Woods, the largest woodland in Central Park that contains unusual physical features including the Ravine, the Loch and the Pool.  The Wanderers’ last stop in Central Park was at its oldest surviving building, the Blockhouse, built in 1814 as a lookout tower with openings for guns.

The Wanderers then exited Central Park onto 110th Street and wandered 15 blocks north on Malcolm X Boulevard to lunch.  Due to the large size of the wandering group, the Wanderers split into two groups and each Wanderer enjoyed a well-deserved lunch at either Sylvia’s Restaurant or the nearby Red Rooster Restaurant.  After lunch, the Wanderers wandered a few more blocks to the Metro-North Railroad Station at 125th Street and returned home via Metro-North.”

(1)  Wanderers standing on the stairs leading to the pagoda in the Conservatory Garden, Photo by Sam Bridges;
(2) Jack Carley, Harry Bergen and Doug Bernacchi standing behind Fort Clinton’s canon with Bill Flowers standing in line of fire, Photo by Chet Cobb;
(3) Fred and Lorry Given taking a break after wandering through the North Woods, Photo by Chet Cobb;
(4) Wanderers successfully locating and assembling at the Blockhouse, Photo by Chet Cobb; and
(5) Tom Igoe relaxing at the Blockhouse, Photo by Chet Cobb.

Officers & Directors 2026-2027

DMA Directors and Officers  2026 – 2027

  • President – Doug Bora
  • First Vice President – Rick Agresta
  • Second Vice President – Ted Helms
  • Secretary – Doug Traver
  • Asst Secretary – Greg Glashan
  • Treasurer – Dan Lew
  • Asst Treasurer – Ian Webb

Directors-at-large:

  • Ken Hamilton (1st term)
  • Jay Bennett (2nd term)

Committee Chairmen Directors:

  • Community Service – John Craft
  • Membership and Hospitality – Wim Jessup
  • Communications – Chris Conley
  • Social Events – Bob Dawe

Past President Directors:

  • Ric Grefe (2025-2026)
  • Frank DeLeo (2024-2025)

Golf Oak Hills July 13, 2026

Date:                                 July 13, 2026

Location:                           Oak Hills Golf Course

Time:                                 1 pm shotgun start, staging at 12:30 pm

Format:                             Scramble

Cost:                                  $130 per golfer, includes green’s fee, cart, tips, prizes and $30+ donation to At Home in Darien

Greens/Tee Signs:           $150 per sign, net proceeds (estimated to be $135 per sign) to go to At Home in Darien

Mulligans:                        $20 per mulligan, max 4 per foursome, sold during staging, cash only

 

Food:                                 Odeen’s Restaurant and Bar will be open prior to the event for lunch

Beverage and snacks available at the halfway house and roving refreshment carts – cash only

 

After Golf:                        Awards, brief remarks and cash bar on the patio — nibbles and snacks to be provided

 

 

To the Members of the DMA,

 

Please join us for an afternoon of golf at Oak Hills Golf Course on Monday, July 13, 2026. We’ll have a 1 pm shotgun start, with 12:30 pm staging in carts in the parking area.  It will be a scramble format, with prizes for the winning foursome and runners up.

 

The fee for participating as a golfer is $130 per person, which includes golf green’s fee, cart rental, tips, prizes and a $30+ donation to At Home in Darien.  Greens/Tee signs are being sold for $150 per sign, with net proceeds to go to At Home in Darien.  Mulligans ($20 each, max 4 per foursome) will be sold for cash during the staging, with proceeds going to At Home in Darien. After, there will be a brief awards ceremony and reception with cash bar at Odeen’s Restaurant (nibbles and snacks to be provided). For those wishing to have lunch at the course prior to the event, you can buy lunch from Odeen’s full menu.  There is also a halfway house after the 9th hole offering beverages and snacks, as well as roving refreshment carts on the course — both are cash only.

 

If you would like to play or bring a foursome or purchase a green/tee sign, please email Frank Gallagher.  Last year we had 80 golfers and this year we are shooting for 100.  The event is open to men and women, DMA members and their significant others and friends, and friends of At Home in Darien.  Checks for golf ($130 per person) and tee/green signs ($150 per sign) are to be made out to “Darien Men’s Association” and mailed to the Darien Men’s Association, 274 Middlesex Road, Darien, CT 06820, Attention: Dan Lew.  All net proceeds from the event will be passed through to At Home in Darien.

At Home in Darien is a non-profit organization based at Town Hall in Darien whose mission is empower seniors in Darien to stay in their homes and be safe, healthy and socially connected.  At Home provides services to seniors including transportation, shopping, light household chores that enable seniors to stay in their homes.  For more information on At Home in Darien, please visit its website, www.athomeindarien.org.

Darien Men’s Association

Hike Pine Creek Path, Westport, June 11, 2026

And when beauty speaks, the voice of all the gods
makes heaven drowsy with the harmony – (Shakespeare, sort of).

On Thursday, June 11, the Hale and Hearty Hikers will traverse an enchanting path in Westport that snakes beside Pine Creek. We will congregate at the end of Salt Meadow Road, where there is limited parking. Our trek takes us across two bridges and gently meanders to the end of a peninsula that separates the nature preserve from Long Island Sound. While your calorie burn on this one might be sub-optimal, your aesthetic appreciation will soar to great heights.

Per usual, carpoolers should meet at the DCA parking lot at 9:30 a.m. Please remember to park your vehicle in the back of the lot. For navigation purposes, use Salt Meadow Road as your destination. I have seen leashed dogs here frequently, so my assumption is that they are permitted.

Since you will not be huffing and puffing during this excursion, it is also an excellent opportunity to bring along a friend or relative with whom you have been meaning to talk. Post hike we will enjoy a repast at nearby Blackstones Grille, 2600 Post Road, Southport.

Alec Wiggin

Summer Read: Peak Human Sep 9, 2026
What We Can Learn from History’s Greatest Civilizations by Johan Norberg

All golden ages are marked by periods of spectacular cultural flourishing, scientific exploration, technological achievement and economic growth; yet no two are the same. Their beliefs, societies and place in the wider world all vary. Despite this, all previous golden ages have ended, whether it be because of external pressures or internal fracturing; too much hubris or too little wariness. Looking at seven of humanity’s greatest civilizations – ancient Athens, the Roman Republic, Abbasid Baghdad, Song China, Renaissance Italy, the Dutch Republic and the Anglosphere – historian and commentator Johan Norberg seeks to distil their strengths and shortcomings in answering the question: how do we ensure that our current golden age doesn’t end? As insightful as it is riveting, Peak Human is at once a paean to our incredible progress and a warning that we cannot afford to be complacent.

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