Category: Activities (Page 20 of 32)

Activities are gatherings that occur on a regular schedule, usually weekly, to enjoy a specific pastime.

Golf: DMA – MCNC Golf Tournament, Thursday, September 19,2019

Rescheduled from June

DMA – MCNC Golf Tournament

Gentlemen,

The Annual DMA – MCNC (Men’s Club of New Canaan) Golf Tournament will be held this year Thursday, Sept 19, 2019 at the Silvermine Golf Club. This is a spirited competition which is characterized by good fellowship. Most important, it is a fun event.

After golf, we all enjoy a buffet lunch with one another. The cost is $60.00 which includes greens fee, cart and lunch.

At this point, I am seeking volunteers to play for the DMA golf team. This has been an even competition for the last couple of years. Traditionally, our depth has been our strength although it is also important that our best players step up to play on the golf team in order to put DMA over the top.

Please send me your Index and/ or Handicap with your response. This information will be used to select the team. Further details to follow.

Thanks and regards,

Denny Devere

203-353-1758

dgdevere@optonline.net

Golf: Oak Hills, June 25, 2019

Our first 2019 outing is at Oak Hills Park, Norwalk, Tuesday, 25 June, starting at 11:00 AM.

Tee times will be assigned once registration is complete. You are encouraged to come early or stay late to enjoy lunch in the Clubhouse Grille.

To sign up, email Peter Carnes, picarnes@gmail.com.
Provide your handicap to facilitate pairing.

Fee is $50 (includes cart) payable when you arrive.
Members of Oak Hills pay a discounted price.

Confirmation and coordination will be via email during the week prior to play.

For directions to Oak Hills, go to https://www.oakhillsgc.com/contact/directions-a-map

Hosts: Peter Carnes, Denny Devere

Current Affairs: Illegal Immigration, June 20, 2019

Jim Phillips will lead a discussion on the issue of illegal immigration  on June 20, 2019, 8:15am in the Lilian Gade room at the DCA.

 

https://www.washingtonpost.com/immigration/homeland-security-to-test-dna-of-families-at-border-in-cases-of-suspected-fraud/2019/05/01/8e8c042a-6c46-11e9-a66d-a82d3f3d96d5_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.32e653253a32

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-immigration-asylum/trump-directs-officials-to-toughen-asylum-rules-idUSKCN1S603M

https://www.numbersusa.com/solutions

https://thehill.com/opinion/immigration/401492-trump-ignores-practical-solution-for-stopping-illegal-immigration

https://www.cato.org/publications/commentary/real-reform-can-fix-immigration

https://www.researchgate.net/post/What_are_some_realistic_solutions_to_immigration

Monthly arrests at border reach highest point since 2007 – The Washington Post

https://apple.news/ABUEpRf2zSyuy5VqGauZ1jA

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/05/02/us/border-patrol-texas.html?em_pos=large&emc=edit_ctb_20190502&nl=crossing-the-border&nlid=69685278dit_ctb_20190502&ref=headline&te=1

https://www.cnbc.com/2019/05/15/trump-immigration-plan-puts-emphasis-on-skills-education-over-family.html

Book Club: Breaking and Entering by Jeremy Smith, September 11, 2019

KIRKUS REVIEW

A novelistic tech tale that puts readers on the front lines of cybersecurity.

For all whose lives and connections depend on the internet—nearly everyone—this biography of the pseudonymous “Alien” provides a fast-paced cautionary tale. Smith (Epic Measures: One Doctor. Seven Billion Patients., 2015, etc.) has enough experience as a computer programmer to understand the technicalities of this world, but his storytelling makes it intelligible to general readers; indeed, the narrative is more character-driven than technology-driven. The book requires a few leaps of faith—not only that Alien is who the author says she is, but that she can so vividly recount events and conversations that happened years before she met the author. The story begins with Alien at MIT. Lacking focus and direction, she was drawn to a hacking community in a time when the term could extend from picking locks to taking drugs and didn’t become more focused on technology until computers became more central to society. The hackers often lived more adventurous lives than many students, and Alien experienced plenty of casual sex, drug use, and a few tragic casualties along the way. She graduated from hacking computer systems to helping protect them from hackers at a time when “Corporations from Microsoft and Cisco on down had begun hiring hackers of their own to help defend themselves against other hackers.” Some worked one side of the fence, some worked the other, and some straddled the line and were capable of “going rogue.” Smith goes into great detail to demonstrate how Alien could penetrate the security of whomever was employing her, showing how a real criminal would do it, and makes fearfully clear that there is “no such thing as absolute security in this world, or any definitive and final fixes.” Alien now runs a small hacking company that assists with security for banks, governments, and other organizations.

A page-turning real-life thriller, the sort of book that may leave readers feeling both invigorated and vulnerable.

http://digitaledition.courant.com/infinity/article_share.aspx?guid=89343e2d-37fa-4b79-a270-4de7ad1b8ef2

Book Club: Madam Fourcade’s War by Lynne Olson, August 14, 2019

KIRKUS REVIEW

How one Frenchwoman’s spy network helped win the war against the Nazis.

Marie-Madeleine Fourcade (1909-1989) was raised in a well-to-do French family, but she was extremely independent for her time and refused to comply with the unstated rules of proper feminine behavior. “All her life,” writes Olson (Last Hope Island: Britain, Occupied Europe, and the Brotherhood That Helped Turn the Tide of War, 2017, etc.), “she rebelled against the norms of France’s deeply conservative, patriarchal society.” When she was approached to work with an espionage group to help the Allies before the onset of World War II, she accepted the position with little hesitation. Following this life-changing decision, she became the eventual leader of the group known as “Alliance,” a vast network of spies and radio operators who worked all over France. In a comprehensive, often exciting narrative, the author chronicles the actions of Fourcade and Alliance from 1936 to 1945. Her use of quotes and solid descriptive passages help re-create the tension and anxiety Fourcade and her friends felt as they risked everything to save France. Olson also effectively integrates a thorough history of the role of the Vichy government during this time as well as details on how MI6 and the Allies used the information Alliance collected to change the course of the war. She shares specifics on many of the agents under Fourcade’s control, their daring exploits and escapes, and what happened to those captured by the Germans. With the same attention to detail, Olson writes about Fourcade’s secret lover and her children. Although the text is overlong, the author brings into the spotlight a woman whose courage and endurance helped shape history yet whose full story had not yet been told. “For several decades following the war,” writes the author, “histories of the French resistance, which were written almost exclusively by men, largely ignored the contributions of women.” Olson rectifies that omission.

An engaging, informative addition to World War II history.

Current Affairs: CRISPR, May 16, 2019

Discussion Leader: Jack Fitzgibbons

CRISPR is a technique to edit genes.  It has been compared to a word processor to edit the genome of any living organism.  This capability has the power for breakthrough developments such as biofuels, disease resistant and more nutritious crops, and actually “repairing” a human gene that causes a deadly disease such as sickle cell anemia.  But, like nuclear energy, CRISPR can be used for good or bad.  Should we “fix” or even “improve” nature?  What regulations are called for?  Can the genie be put back in the bottle?  Jack Fitzgibbons will lead the discussion as we struggle with this promising but challenging technology.

 


https://dariendma.org/wp-content/uploads/CRISPR-US-Patient.pdf

https://dariendma.org/wp-content/uploads/CRISPR-What-are-the-Ethical-Concerns-of-Genome-Editing.pdf

https://www.wsj.com/articles/how-a-chinese-scientist-broke-the-rules-to-create-the-first-gene-edited-babies-11557506697?mod=hp_lead_pos6

Money Matters  Wed  May 1, 2019  8:45-9:45,  Trusts and Estates

MONEY MATTERS  Wed  May 1, 2019,  8:45-9:45  at the DCA  will focus on Trusts and Estates  2nd Floor

Gary Banks and Tom Igoe  will lead a discussion based on Leonard Leader’s Estate Planning presentation at the DCA (April 10).  Come join us and gain some more insights. Bring your thoughts and experiences.

“Money Matters”: Trusts & Estates Discussion, May 1, 2019

You need an up-to-date will and estate plan otherwise:

  • Your estate will follow the default rules in CT. So you do have a plan – but not necessarily the one you want.
  • If you don’t appoint Executor, Guardians and Trustees, the Court will.
  • Money can bring out the worst in people. I’m sure some people look down, or up, at their heirs fighting over their estate and are appalled.  There are cases where siblings never speak to each other again because of a dispute over what is fair or who was promised what.
  • People and Things that you care about may not be handled as you wish.
  • Your estate might pay more tax than necessary.
  • Must be up-to-date as laws, assets, and family needs change. Minors grow up, you and your family’s health changes, marriage/divorce, behavior, …
  • Privacy

Probate

  • Can’t be avoided entirely in CT
  • Revocable Trusts minimize what has to go through probate.
  • Estate pays fees based on total estate. $5,615 + .5% on assets in excess of $2,000,000.  Not just the assets going through probate.
  • There can be on-going fees and reporting requirements for any trust created by a will.
  • But it’s best to have the probate courts do as little as possible.

Trusts and Taxes

  • Minimize Federal taxes. The Federal deduction is portable.  That is, if you die your spouse can use both her and your Federal Estate Tax Exemption of $11.4M.  This applies even if you have no will.
  • CT Estate taxes. CT’s estate tax exemption is $3.6M.  But if you die with a tax plan, your spouse will lose your exemption.  She will still have her own.  Your missed exemption will be in her estate and taxed at 12% or $432,000!
  • To take advantage of your state tax deduction your spouse needs to “disclaim” the $3.6M into a Disclaimer Trust.
  • Family Trusts
  • Generation Skipping Trusts

Non-Tax reasons for Estate Planning

  • Asset protection. Suits, divorces, destructive behavior, …
  • Protection for descendants. In case of remarriage assets go to your descendents.
  • Special needs.
  • Special assets.
  • Charity

Types of Trusts:

  • Revocable Trust. First line trust.  Better to have assets in the trust than create it in your will to avoid probate.   Can receive income, invest as you see fit, change at any time.
  • Disclaimer Trust. Surviving spouse “disclaims” some assets to preserve CT’s exemption.  Surviving spouse has 9 months to execute.  Spouse still get benefits of the trust.
  • Marital Trust Plan. Like a Disclaimer Trust but pre-defined how it will be executed.
  • Generation Skipping Trusts.
    • Your children get interest and some principle from the trust but they don’t legally own the trust.
    • Protected from divorce, destructive behavior (drugs, gambling), rash spending, liability, .
    • Preserves Federal tax exemption indefinitely.
    • Has independent trustee

Gifts

  • Each spouse can give $15,000 to anyone.
  • CHET, 529 plans

People

  • Executor
  • Trustee – letter
  • Guardian

 

All the material Len Leader handed out at the 4/10 meeting is attached to his speaking announcement.

 

 

 

Trustee Instruction  – Sample Letter: https://dariendma.org/wp-content/uploads/Trustee-Letter-sample.pdf

 

Wander the Williamsberg section of Brooklyn, April 16, 2019

2019 April Wandering

On Tuesday April 16, David Mace will lead our April Wandering.

The Wanderers will take the train on Tuesday morning to Grand Central Terminal — the 8:36 AM train from the Darien station, which is the 8:39 AM from Noroton Heights. Upon arrival, we all shall meet at the Upper Level Information Booth at GCT. Please bring your MetroCard for the subway or select the  MetroCard included” option when you purchase your train tickets from the machines on the train station platforms.

We shall go by Subway to the Delancey Street neighborhood of lower Manhattan and from there stroll over the East River via the Williamsburg Bridge to the Williamsburg section of Brooklyn. The tour will proceed past the historic Peter Lugar’s Restaurant and the architecturally acclaimed historic main branch of the Williamsburg Savings Bank, through a portion of Brooklyn’s Hasidic ethnic neighborhood, and past the northern part of the Brooklyn Navy Yard that has been converted into Steiner Studios, the largest motion picture lot outside of Hollywood. Lunch will be at an Italian Restaurant on the riverbank, with broad vistas of lower Manhattan. Then we shall return by ferry to the Wall Street Ferry Terminal,
and thence, via subway, back to Grand Central. We expect to return about 4:00 PM on the MetroNorth train then leaving Grand Central for Darien.

Hike Devil’s Den Preserve, Tuesday, May 7, 2019, 10.00am

Hiking Devil’s Den Preserve
Tuesday, May 7, 2019, 10.00am

We will be hiking the trails at Devil’s Den Preserve in Weston on Tuesday, May 7, 2019 with a
10 am start. This is the largest nature preserve in SW Connecticut and extremely popular with
hikers.Owned by the Nature Conservancy, its has 1700 acres of woodlands,wetlands,ponds and
streams, and 20 miles of picturesque trails. It is home to 145 species of birds, 20 species of
mammals, and over 400 varieties of trees and wildflowers.

We will be hiking a loop of 4 miles.This trail has a moderate level of difficulty in that there are
places of gradual uphill, but these are usually followed by long stretches of flat trail. You do
need sturdy shoes as the trail is rocky in places.
After the hike, at about 12.30pm, we will head over to the Barn Door Restaurant for lunch. This
restaurant is located at 37 Ethan Allen Hwy (Rt 7), about a 10 minute drive from Devil’s Den.
As usual, we welcome spouses and significant others on our hikes. Newer members of DMA
are encouraged to join us.

Directions
Take Exit 42 off the north-bound Merritt Parkway and at the bottom of exit ramp make a right
turn onto Route 57 North towards Weston. After 3.8 miles, make a left and continue on Rt 57 for
another 1.3 miles. Turn right on Godfrey Road West and drive half a mile. Make left on to Pent
Road which ends in the parking lot for Devil’s Den.
On Google Maps use this destination address : 33 Pent Road, Weston

Contact : Sunil Saksena 203-561-8601 (cell) ssaksena44@gmail.com

Hike Babcock Preserve, Thursday, March 28, 2019

HIKING BABCOCK PRESERVE in GREENWICH, CT
Thursday March 28, 2019 10AM
The Babcock Preserve is a 300 acre tract of forested land in Greenwich, north of the Merritt. It is the largest park in Greenwich and consists of several hiking trails over a relatively easy terrain. It was acquired by the Town of Greenwich in 1972, partially by gift and partially by purchase from the Babcock Family.

The park is very tranquil at this time of the year. We will be hiking approximately 3 ½ miles which should take us till about 12.30pm.. More than half the trail is relatively flat, the rest is a gentle slope
which isn’t very strenuous.

As usual wives are invited and they will find this hike particularly enjoyable.

After the hike we will have lunch( optional) at a nearby restaurant.

Contact: Sunil Saksena

Wanderers: Walk of Lower Manhattan on Tuesday, March 19, 2019

Happy Wanderers schedule walk of Lower Manhattan on Tuesday, March 19, 2019

On Tuesday, March 19, The Happy Wanderers will be exploring the area south of City Hall all the way to Bowling Green on the southern tip of Manhattan. This area constitutes the historic core of the colonial city as well as the financial district and has about 40 landmark sites.

Our meandering will take us past at least 15 of these sites including the US Customs House, Fraunces Tavern, Federal Hall,  NYStock Exchange, Trinity Church, St. Paul’s Chapel, Woolworth building, 9/11 Memorial and the Oculus.

If you are interested in joining this first Wandering of 2019 on Tuesday March 19, board the 8.36am train out of Darien or the 8.39am from Noroton Heights bound for Grand Central. On arrival, congregate at the information booth in the center of the Great Hall. From there we will take the subway downtown to begin our exploration. We expect to walk about 4-5 miles, punctuated by the 11 am libation break at the historic Fraunces Tavern and lunch near the 9/11 Memorial. We expect to take the train back to Darien around 3-30 pm.

Contact : Sunil Saksena, 203-561-8601; ssaksena44@gmail.com

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